Author: Judy Schwartz Haley

Running Away

I'm running away for the weekend; leaving Seattle in my wake. Let's just pretend that I don't have 30 pounds of text books packed in my suitcase. I'm headed off for a weekend of girl talk, yoga, beach combing and chick flicks with my 'cancer girls,' as my husband calls them. He always uses the [...]

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Letting go of the illusion of control

I like to think of myself as having superpowers. My favorite superpower is the ability to make things go away by not believing they are true. I’ve had a lot of practice using this superpower; I was diagnosed with stage 3 breast cancer while I was still breastfeeding my baby.

I have a lot of practice using this superpower, but not much success.

One of the first things that hits you over the head with a cancer diagnosis, after confronting your mortality, is the understanding that you are not in control. Control is an illusion. That is a very difficult concept around which to wrap your brain.

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Alaska Railroad Adventure, 1947

My grandparents moved to Alaska in the late 1940s. At that time, the state was very much still a rugged frontier, and everyone had an interesting story to tell. Grandma took notes, and shared them with me, asking me to publish them so the rest of the family could have easy access to these stories. [...]

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Salt Water

Isak Denison once wrote that the cure for anything is salt water: tears, sweat, or the sea Personally, I'd much rather take my cure from the sea, than sweat or tears. We really should get out here more often. This wasn't Gem's first trip to the beach; last time she was just a few months [...]

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