I’ve been doing a lot of deep thinking, lately…
pondering,
cogitating,
ruminating,
evaluating,
perhaps even brooding. Definitely brooding.
I’m just not at a point where I can talk about it all. It’s just so much…
So much what does this cancer diagnosis mean to the rest of my life? to what extent will I let it define me? what do I want to do when I grow up? will it have something to do with cancer? should I change my major? what is the meaning of life, the universe, and everything? does it even matter? where are my shoes? how will we pay rent? did I take my pills this morning, or was that yesterday? who am I? who are you? will Lizzie and Mr. Darcy ever work things out?
In spite of all of that, I still have this…
the meaning of life, the universe, and everything is such a small thing compared to the beauty of my little girl in a swing. Pondering can wait; it’s time to play.
WW Linkup
Every week I host a photo linkup where we share posts featuring a photo. It started out being called Wordless Wednesday, but… Bloggers? Wordless? Then we started calling it Wordy Wednesday. Now we just abreviate to WW, and you pick for yourself whether or not to get wordy.
Link up your photo post below to share, and we’ll be by to visit.

































It sounds like you have so much to process, which may be tiring for you. I love the photo of your beautiful girl – so carefree. I hope you make some headway with your thoughts. For me, writing helps me process most things. Have you bought a pretty new journal lately? And sometimes my best eureka moments happen when I’m not brooding over something. Wishing you well,
Claire.
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Love this photo of your sweet daughter. Questions, questions there are always so many crowding the brain. I echo Claire. Keep writing them down and the answers will come!
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I love this perspective! Play makes a lot of our anxieties go away. I know some of your thoughts are pretty big ones. Keeping your eye on your little girl surely will help. Big Hugs!
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Watching a child and their utter joy at the simple things can really put things in perspective doesn’t it. She is beautiful.. and you will figure it out.
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As I read everyone’s blogs, yours included, I am humbled by what other people have to deal with. Respect. C xxx
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Cancer certainly is good for one thing…perspective.
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I’m not sure how I would deal with that diagnosis. But you have pretty good perspective. And I have to say your girl is a sweetie and you captured the shot wonderfully.
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I’m so glad that she is your moment. When things start to overwhelm, take that moment, see her, and soak that in. <3 I can't imagine the journey will be easy, but it's a "piece" of it, not all of it.
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Perspective is amazing…..
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Sometimes we all need to brood. But that photo would surely pull me out of my brooding. Enjoy her!
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Such a beautiful photo of your daughter. I agree with the others, it’s a great thing when you have something so wonderful as your child to help put everything in perspective.
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It’s so amazing how children can alter our perspective on things. Love their innocence! Great photo
Thanks for sharing!
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your post is beautiful… tears streaming, good and others… you picture just melts my heart. I linked up….
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What a beautiful post. Life is so confusing sometimes and I, like you, have found that sometimes just watching my kids at play seems to put that spark back in life. I love what they have to teach us in their every day innocence.
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So sweet! Amazing how kids keep us grounded in the right here, right now, isn’t it?
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I really like this photo! Great shot!
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So beautiful–there is so much we can learn from our kids. Best wishes for a full and speedy recovery!
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I am always looking for my shoes too
You are a beautiful writer Judy.
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Sending you healing thoughts, energies, & prayers. Thank you for sharing this beautiful photo & your moving prose.
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My thoughts are with you. You seem to have a grip on things though since you are focused on your precious daughter.
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What a lovely photo…and a beautiful blessing you have there…she’s so cute! Praying for you
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A great photo. A real demonstration of what is really important in life.
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I love this picture…makes me want to go play on the swing. A beautiful moment of childhood captured forever.
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great shot and lovely writting
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Love the photo and the very positive attitude that you have.
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Your daughter is beautiful! Sending positive thoughts your way …
Paula
lifeasweknowitbypaula.blogspot.com
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Love this and it is time to go play enjoy!!!
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That picture is so perfect. And a great way to clear your head!
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Love that shot – and love that you’re keeping a positive attitude. I’ll be keeping you in my thoughts and prayers! ((HUGZ!!))
Funny Face
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WHat a great post! & a beautiful picture!
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It sounds like you have A LOT on your plate right now. When I find myself in that position I find a little kindness towards myself and my struggles goes a long way… PS Lizzie and Mr Darcy live happily ever after of course!
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Nothing like a carefree child to put things into perspective, at least for a moment. Thank you for sharing!
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Great shot! Looks like a lot of fun
, just imagine being a kid again.
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Enjoy your precious gift from God. Children a such a blessing!
Praying for complete healing for you. Praying that you feel peace knowing God is in control.
I look forward to connecting and praying with you.
Thanks for sharing on Blessed Beyond a Doubt!
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What a beautiful shot! Sometimes it’s just nice to get outside and forget all our worries.
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Cancer is definitely not the ending… it is the beginning of life and love. You become more aware of everything and everyone that matter to you and you understand who really is important. You have a beautiful daughter who will make you laugh everyday and who will give you unconditional love. Cherish every moment. I am rooting for you.
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I love the photo and you saw I got quite wordy today! Thanks for stopping by!
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Focus on the positive, you can’t change much else. Love the photo!
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