Banned Books Week

When thinking of banned and contested books, it’s easy to conjure up images of the repression that existed in America during the 1950s. Sure, we’ve all heard of the book burning parties, and we all know that Diary of Anne Frank and Of Mice and Men
were banned back in the day.

But the repression hasn’t ended.

The assault on knowledge and ideas and discussion and diversity marches on. In 21st Century America book burning parties continue, as do attempts at banning books in libraries.

Here is a partial list of the banned and contested books from just this past year.

    Alexie, Sherman. The Absolutely True Diary of a Part-Time Indian. Indian kid goes to an all white school.

    Anonymous. Go Ask Alice. Don’t do drugs.

    Bowden, Mark. Black Hawk Down: A Story of Modern War. War is violent.

    Hosseini, Khaled. The Kite Runner. All’s fair in love and war – one of my favorite books

    Lee, Harper. To Kill a Mockingbird. I think everyone should read this book.

    Maguire, Gregory. Wicked: The Life and Times of the Wicked Witch of the West. Tells the other side of the story of the Wizard of Oz.

    Meyer, Stephenie H. The Twilight Series. Vampires from a Mormon’s perspective.

    Picoult, Jodi. My Sister’s Keeper. Little sister doesn’t want to donate her kidney.

    Pullman, Philip. The Golden Compass. Religion can have a dark side.

    Richardson, Justin, and Peter Parnell. And Tango Makes Three. The world is not suffering from too much love.

    Salinger, J. D. The Catcher in the Rye. I am no fan of Holden, but I understand his frustration with hypocrisy.

    Seierstad, Åsne. The Bookseller of Kabul. This book was infuriating at times, but it made me think.

    Walker, Alice. The Color Purple. resilience.

The irony of book banning is that it’s one of the best ways to get someone to read a book they otherwise might not consider. Read a banned book this week. Check with your local library for more information.


What is your favorite banned book?

I think mine has to be The Handmaid’s Tale by Margaret Atwood. It’s more relevant today than it was when it was written.

Dear Gem – Month 6

Dear Gem – Month 6

It amazes me that you are already six months old, you’ve become so much a part of our lives that I can hardly imagine my life without you, or remember how I got through the day before you were born.

How did I not get more accomplished then? Sure, it can be stressful at times, but I get nearly as much done now as I did then, yet I spend hours upon hours playing with you every day. I’ve been blessed with the best of both worlds.

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You’ve had an amazing effect on my concept of time. I was once so focused on learning from my past, and preparing for my future, that I completely overlooked the present. The present was merely segue.

You gave me the gift of now.

From the moment of your birth – and I can’t imagine being any more engaged in the present than that experience – you have, time and time again, brought me back to right now. Not just daily, but hour by hour. A glance, a new skill, a smile, the sweet sound of your voice cooing and babbling pull me back into the here and now. And when I’m with you, the here and now is a beautiful place to be.

You are so smart and beautiful, but in a much more important way than the world considers. You are intelligent because you are curious. You explore the living room from corner to corner, you examine every inch of your toys. You are very aware of what’s going on around you, listening to conversations while studying our facial expressions. You study every face you see. These are the things that make you smart. Intelligence is not static. Intelligence is not something you are born with, it is the result of your actions. Intelligence is the thirst for knowledge, and the practice of putting it to use. And you, my darling daughter, you are already exhibiting great intelligence.

Dear Gem - Month 6

You are as beautiful as you are smart, and you are beautiful in ways that are much more important than what the world says as well. It’s not about your rosy cheeks, or the curl of your impossibly long eyelashes, or your perfect rosebud mouth. Your beauty is about your genuine smile. Your smile lights up your eyes, your face, and the entire room. Your smile lights smiles on the faces of strangers. Your beauty is in the way you behave, you reach out and place your palm on my cheek when I’m talking to you, the sweet, gentle tones in your voice. You are genuine and sweet, and that is lovely.

Dear Gem - Month 6

Your intelligence and your beauty are both qualities within your control. The more you seek knowledge, the more intelligent you will be. The more genuine and kind your interactions with others, the more beautiful you will be.

You may question me on this statement, particularly on the topic of beauty. But someday you will meet someone who is bitter and embraces cruel ideology, and then you will understand what ugly is. Your actions and attitude are far more likely to leave an indelible impression in someone’s mind than the color of your eyes, or the designer of your skirt.

I have so much more I want to say to you at the moment. I want to talk about all your accomplishments this month and how much you have learned. But this letter has already grown much too long, so I will continue with more in a couple days.

thank you for brightening up my life

I love you

Mommy

Read more Letters to Gem.

For My Daughter

For My Daughter

Sometimes our memories of events become skewed. They get all tangled up in the emotions we were feeling at the time, and the actual facts, the actual words, get lost in the chaos as our brain set’s the memory and files it away for future reference. Someday in the future you may ask me what all this hullabaloo was about. I want to take a moment and set down the details surrounding what really should not be an earth-shattering ground breaking moment. President Barack Obama’s address to school children today.

This is not a new thing. Presidents have been addressing school children for years, as have nearly all the other branches of government. Senators, Local and State Representatives, Governors, Judges, and Mayors representing both the Democrats and the Republicans all spoke to me and my peers at school. President Reagan gave a presentation that was aired to me while I was at school. No advance notice was given. There was definitely no advance text provided of the actual words that were going to be said. No permission slips sent home for my parents to sign. No public outcry.

So what makes this time different?

At first the outcry was because President Obama was speaking to school children directly, while they were at school. But then people were reminded that many Presidents have done so, as have politicians in other offices.

Then the outcry was because one of the lesson plan suggestions was to have the students write a letter to President Obama, which was later changed to have the students write a letter to themselves. But President George H. W. Bush also asked students to write a letter to him.

Then the outcry was because of the very existence of the optional teaching aids that were provided for teachers to use, if they so choose, to help the students interact with what the President has to say. But lesson plan ideas are packaged with everything these days. Toys I buy for you have papers included with ideas of how I can use the toy to teach a lesson, the Baby Einstein DVDs include ideas for ways parents to interact with baby and the show, even many of the novels I read have 20 page inserts in the back with discussion points for book groups. And the suggestions are the types of things students learn in class anyways. There is nothing wrong with students learning about past and present Presidents. In fact, it’s standard teaching material. The optional lesson plan ideas may be a new element of the traditional Presidential address to students, but they are everywhere right now. This is the wave of the future, and you will see more movies and toys packaged with optional teaching aids over time. The teaching aids are optional, not a requirement. And, most importantly, the teacher, not the President, determines whether the classroom discussion turns political. Don’t forget that half the teachers in this country are Republicans.

The outrage continues on all of the above topics even though they have been addressed. As you can see, and you will experience throughout your life, outrage rarely responds to logic. It is an unfortunate fact, and I honestly don’t have any good advice for you on how to get around that. Just reply with logic, and understand that it may have no affect whatsoever. Just try not to let people bring you down to their level. That does not help anything, and often it makes things worse. Trust me, I’m speaking from experience. Take the high road, even if the people around you are lying.

I have a great deal of faith in you, and a great deal of respect for your intelligence. I would not insult you by assuming that you could be brainwashed by a speech from the President, whether I agreed with the President’s administration or not. I adamantly opposed the actions of President George W. Bush, but were he to speak at your school, I would expect you to respectfully listen and consider what he has to say. That does not mean that you have to agree with him. I am sure that this tradition of Presidential addresses to students will continue, despite the uproar this time, and I expect you to be respectful of the position of the President. You will not get a hall pass from me just because I don’t like the President.

This is a lesson for you. Not the lesson President Obama was trying to get across, this lesson is from me. You will repeatedly find yourself in positions throughout your life where you are surrounded by accusations, hateful words, lies, and the energy flying back and forth between both sides of the issue is heated. It is very difficult to figure out what is going on, why people are angry, why people think lying will make their point more valid. And it is especially difficult to figure out where you stand on the issue, and make sure you are standing on facts.

I want you to read the text of the speech included below, as well as the optional ideas for classroom activities that were provided to teachers I have included below.

When you get older, I will expect you to apply critical thinking skills. Are there rival ideas that are valid? What are the issues and the conclusions? What are the reasons that are being provided? Are there any parts that are ambiguous? Are there any errors in reasoning? Is there any important, relevant information that has been left out? Look at the words that are used, look at the examples cited. What is the message that President Obama is trying to get across? Do you agree with that message? Do you disagree? It’s OK to disagree. There is absolutely nothing wrong with that. What are the political elements of the speech? What are the political elements of he teachers’ tool? Are there any sentences or phrase with which you take issue? Are there any that stand out that you agree with? What about the ideas that were provided to the teachers? What is the purpose of those ideas? What do they teach? If a teacher uses one of these lesson ideas, is President Obama controlling the conversation in the classroom, or is the teacher?

Could you have critically analyzed the President’s address, and the accompanying ideas for teachers, without first reading them? Is it fair to judge an idea or proposal based on who proposed it without actually reading it? Is it fair to say President Obama is trying to brainwash student’s with this speech and the optional materials for teachers? If so, what is he trying to brainwash student’s to believe or do?

There, and back again

There, and back again

My baby girl, and her adventures.

Wooo! I’m hiding under this ugly pink couch cover.   Mommy can’t see me because my eyes are covered.
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Oh, good, my toe is still here. I think I’ll just be still and hold my toe a moment.

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M-o-m! You’re invading my privacy! No grownups allowed!

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Now, what was I doing again?

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Oh, yeah, rolling over.

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Whoa! It’s kinda dark down here.

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What was I doing down here anyways?

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Maybe I can get myself out of this.

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I think I can.

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I think I can.

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I think I can!

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Yay! I did it!

 

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