{"id":7027,"date":"2014-09-01T20:49:46","date_gmt":"2014-09-02T03:49:46","guid":{"rendered":"http:\/\/coffeejitters.net\/blog\/?p=7027"},"modified":"2021-08-29T22:44:29","modified_gmt":"2021-08-30T05:44:29","slug":"juggle-cancer-parenting","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"http:\/\/coffeejitters.net\/blog\/2014\/09\/01\/juggle-cancer-parenting\/","title":{"rendered":"How to Juggle Cancer and Parenting"},"content":{"rendered":"\n

When I was diagnosed with breast cancer in 2010, one of the first things I did was head straight to the book store. I was looking for a book that would tell me how to juggle cancer and parenting my infant daughter. I didn’t find anything that provided helpful information or practical steps I could take to help ensure that my daughter still gets a vibrant childhood even when I have trouble getting out of bed.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

As a writer, one recurring piece advice I keep hearing is write the book you want to read. While not a book, this blog series on cancer and parenting is a step in that direction.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

If you found this site because you are in that unenviable position of having both cancer and young children, let me just say that the road ahead of you is difficult, but it is also full of love and joy. The thing I needed to hear most at this point in my journey was that my child can have a wonderful childhood and grow into a compassionate and strong adult despite my cancer. Your child can too.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

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This page is a work in progress; as each interview and story is posted, this page will be updated with the new post. I’ve got one post per week lined up for several months. Check back often to read more stories.<\/p>\n\n\n\n\n\n

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Did you have cancer while raising your children? Did you have children, or adopt, after your cancer treatment?<\/p>\n\n\n\n

Sharing your story can be cathartic, it can also help other parents who are newly diagnosed, and scared, and overwhelmed.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

The survey is long, but it provides significant leeway to share your story the way you want it told.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

Cancer and Parenting Young Children Survey<\/a><\/p>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"

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