{"id":69,"date":"2006-04-13T18:45:00","date_gmt":"2006-04-14T01:45:00","guid":{"rendered":"http:\/\/coffeejitters.net\/blog\/?p=69"},"modified":"2021-03-17T20:23:59","modified_gmt":"2021-03-18T03:23:59","slug":"johari-window","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"http:\/\/coffeejitters.net\/blog\/2006\/04\/13\/johari-window\/","title":{"rendered":"Johari Window"},"content":{"rendered":"<table style=\"BORDER-COLLAPSE: collapse; TEXT-ALIGN: center; border-spacing: 0px\">\n<tbody>\n<tr>\n<td style=\"BORDER-RIGHT: #000 1px solid; PADDING-RIGHT: 4px; BORDER-TOP: #000 1px solid; PADDING-LEFT: 4px; BACKGROUND: #ccf; PADDING-BOTTOM: 4px; VERTICAL-ALIGN: top; BORDER-LEFT: #000 1px solid; WIDTH: 50%; PADDING-TOP: 4px; BORDER-BOTTOM: #000 1px solid\">\n<h2 style=\"MARGIN: 0px\">Arena<\/h2>\n<div style=\"FONT-SIZE: 0.7em\">(known to self and others)<\/div>\n<p><span style=\"FONT-WEIGHT: bold;color:#0000ff;\">intelligent<\/span>, <span style=\"color:#00007f;\">loving<\/span>, <span style=\"color:#00002a;\">reflective<\/span>, <span style=\"color:#00002a;\">witty<\/span><\/p>\n<\/td>\n<td style=\"BORDER-RIGHT: #000 1px solid; 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