{"id":61,"date":"2005-12-30T17:38:00","date_gmt":"2005-12-31T00:38:00","guid":{"rendered":"http:\/\/coffeejitters.net\/blog\/?p=61"},"modified":"2021-03-17T20:57:05","modified_gmt":"2021-03-18T03:57:05","slug":"36-years-together","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"http:\/\/coffeejitters.net\/blog\/2005\/12\/30\/36-years-together\/","title":{"rendered":"36 years together"},"content":{"rendered":"<p>I got to talk to Dad today &#8211; he&#8217;s back in the hospital again, but seems to be in good spirits. He joked about seeing if his wife would let him off the hook for going out to dinner tonight &#8211; which is when it dawned on me that today is their 36th wedding anniversary.<br \/><a href=\"https:\/\/i0.wp.com\/photos1.blogger.com\/blogger\/7188\/1488\/1600\/0543913-R1-E017.jpg\"><img data-recalc-dims=\"1\" decoding=\"async\" style=\"FLOAT: left; MARGIN: 0px 10px 10px 0px; CURSOR: hand\" alt=\"\" src=\"https:\/\/i0.wp.com\/photos1.blogger.com\/blogger\/7188\/1488\/400\/0543913-R1-E017.jpg?w=1080\" border=\"0\" \/><\/a><br \/>36 years &#8211; I think she&#8217;ll let him get away with it this time&#8230;<\/p>\n<p><a href=\"https:\/\/i0.wp.com\/photos1.blogger.com\/blogger\/7188\/1488\/1600\/0543913-R1-E006.jpg\"><img data-recalc-dims=\"1\" decoding=\"async\" style=\"FLOAT: left; MARGIN: 0px 10px 10px 0px; CURSOR: hand\" alt=\"\" src=\"https:\/\/i0.wp.com\/photos1.blogger.com\/blogger\/7188\/1488\/400\/0543913-R1-E006.jpg?w=1080\" border=\"0\" \/><\/a><br \/>This picture says &#8211; &#8216;what have I gotten myself into?&#8217;<br \/><a href=\"http:\/\/photos1.blogger.com\/blogger\/7188\/1488\/1600\/0543913-R1-E017.jpg\"><\/a><\/p>\n<div class=\"blogger-post-footer\">\u00a9 Copyright Judy Haley 2008. 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