{"id":5168,"date":"2014-06-06T21:57:03","date_gmt":"2014-06-07T04:57:03","guid":{"rendered":"http:\/\/coffeejitters.net\/blog\/?p=5168"},"modified":"2014-08-03T17:36:03","modified_gmt":"2014-08-04T00:36:03","slug":"kindergarten-readiness","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"http:\/\/coffeejitters.net\/blog\/2014\/06\/06\/kindergarten-readiness\/","title":{"rendered":"Kindergarten Readiness"},"content":{"rendered":"<p>Prospective kindergartners, along with their parents, shuffled and herded themselves into the little elementary school cafeteria. The room was thick with nervous energy, excitement, squirmy 5-year-olds who have not yet learned to sit still for an assembly, and information packets fanning at the summer heat.<\/p>\n<p>This was just an introductory meeting &#8211; an open house for families new to the school. These children will not start school for 3 months, but school related anxiety is already starting to kick in. At least for the parents.<\/p>\n<p>If you look at my daughter, you&#8217;d likely see something like this:<\/p>\n<p><a href=\"https:\/\/i0.wp.com\/coffeejitters.net\/blog\/wp-content\/uploads\/2014\/06\/ready-for-kindergarten.png\"><img data-recalc-dims=\"1\" loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" data-attachment-id=\"5170\" data-permalink=\"http:\/\/coffeejitters.net\/blog\/2014\/06\/06\/kindergarten-readiness\/ready-for-kindergarten\/\" data-orig-file=\"https:\/\/i0.wp.com\/coffeejitters.net\/blog\/wp-content\/uploads\/2014\/06\/ready-for-kindergarten.png?fit=1682%2C1682\" data-orig-size=\"1682,1682\" data-comments-opened=\"1\" data-image-meta=\"{&quot;aperture&quot;:&quot;0&quot;,&quot;credit&quot;:&quot;&quot;,&quot;camera&quot;:&quot;&quot;,&quot;caption&quot;:&quot;&quot;,&quot;created_timestamp&quot;:&quot;0&quot;,&quot;copyright&quot;:&quot;&quot;,&quot;focal_length&quot;:&quot;0&quot;,&quot;iso&quot;:&quot;0&quot;,&quot;shutter_speed&quot;:&quot;0&quot;,&quot;title&quot;:&quot;&quot;}\" data-image-title=\"ready for kindergarten\" data-image-description=\"\" data-image-caption=\"\" data-large-file=\"https:\/\/i0.wp.com\/coffeejitters.net\/blog\/wp-content\/uploads\/2014\/06\/ready-for-kindergarten.png?fit=640%2C640\" class=\"alignnone size-large wp-image-5170\" src=\"https:\/\/i0.wp.com\/coffeejitters.net\/blog\/wp-content\/uploads\/2014\/06\/ready-for-kindergarten.png?resize=640%2C640\" alt=\"five years old - ready for kindergarten\" width=\"640\" height=\"640\" srcset=\"https:\/\/i0.wp.com\/coffeejitters.net\/blog\/wp-content\/uploads\/2014\/06\/ready-for-kindergarten.png?resize=640%2C640 640w, https:\/\/i0.wp.com\/coffeejitters.net\/blog\/wp-content\/uploads\/2014\/06\/ready-for-kindergarten.png?resize=150%2C150 150w, https:\/\/i0.wp.com\/coffeejitters.net\/blog\/wp-content\/uploads\/2014\/06\/ready-for-kindergarten.png?resize=300%2C300 300w, https:\/\/i0.wp.com\/coffeejitters.net\/blog\/wp-content\/uploads\/2014\/06\/ready-for-kindergarten.png?w=1682 1682w\" sizes=\"(max-width: 640px) 100vw, 640px\" \/><\/a><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-size: 14px; line-height: 1.5em;\">But as a parent, I&#8217;m more likely to see something like this:<\/span><img data-recalc-dims=\"1\" loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" data-attachment-id=\"5172\" data-permalink=\"http:\/\/coffeejitters.net\/blog\/2014\/06\/06\/kindergarten-readiness\/baby-picture\/\" data-orig-file=\"https:\/\/i0.wp.com\/coffeejitters.net\/blog\/wp-content\/uploads\/2014\/06\/baby-picture.jpg?fit=1630%2C1630\" data-orig-size=\"1630,1630\" data-comments-opened=\"1\" data-image-meta=\"{&quot;aperture&quot;:&quot;3.3&quot;,&quot;credit&quot;:&quot;&quot;,&quot;camera&quot;:&quot;DMC-TZ3&quot;,&quot;caption&quot;:&quot;&quot;,&quot;created_timestamp&quot;:&quot;1297177809&quot;,&quot;copyright&quot;:&quot;&quot;,&quot;focal_length&quot;:&quot;4.6&quot;,&quot;iso&quot;:&quot;100&quot;,&quot;shutter_speed&quot;:&quot;0.025&quot;,&quot;title&quot;:&quot;&quot;}\" data-image-title=\"baby picture\" data-image-description=\"\" data-image-caption=\"\" data-large-file=\"https:\/\/i0.wp.com\/coffeejitters.net\/blog\/wp-content\/uploads\/2014\/06\/baby-picture.jpg?fit=640%2C640\" class=\"alignnone size-large wp-image-5172\" style=\"font-size: 14px; line-height: 1.5em;\" src=\"https:\/\/i0.wp.com\/coffeejitters.net\/blog\/wp-content\/uploads\/2014\/06\/baby-picture.jpg?resize=640%2C640\" alt=\"two year old\" width=\"640\" height=\"640\" srcset=\"https:\/\/i0.wp.com\/coffeejitters.net\/blog\/wp-content\/uploads\/2014\/06\/baby-picture.jpg?resize=640%2C640 640w, https:\/\/i0.wp.com\/coffeejitters.net\/blog\/wp-content\/uploads\/2014\/06\/baby-picture.jpg?resize=150%2C150 150w, https:\/\/i0.wp.com\/coffeejitters.net\/blog\/wp-content\/uploads\/2014\/06\/baby-picture.jpg?resize=300%2C300 300w, https:\/\/i0.wp.com\/coffeejitters.net\/blog\/wp-content\/uploads\/2014\/06\/baby-picture.jpg?w=1630 1630w\" sizes=\"(max-width: 640px) 100vw, 640px\" \/><\/p>\n<p>Looking around the room, it was easy to distinguish the parents with older children, who had ushered a child through kindergarten before, from those who were encountering kindergarten as a parent for the first time. The wide-eyed, deer in the headlights look of those in that second set gave them away. Yes, I&#8217;m a first time parent of a kindergartener as well.<\/p>\n<p><img data-recalc-dims=\"1\" decoding=\"async\" data-attachment-id=\"5173\" data-permalink=\"http:\/\/coffeejitters.net\/blog\/2014\/06\/06\/kindergarten-readiness\/kindergarten-readiness-2\/\" data-orig-file=\"https:\/\/i0.wp.com\/coffeejitters.net\/blog\/wp-content\/uploads\/2014\/06\/kindergarten-readiness.png?fit=2000%2C2000\" data-orig-size=\"2000,2000\" data-comments-opened=\"1\" data-image-meta=\"{&quot;aperture&quot;:&quot;0&quot;,&quot;credit&quot;:&quot;&quot;,&quot;camera&quot;:&quot;&quot;,&quot;caption&quot;:&quot;&quot;,&quot;created_timestamp&quot;:&quot;0&quot;,&quot;copyright&quot;:&quot;&quot;,&quot;focal_length&quot;:&quot;0&quot;,&quot;iso&quot;:&quot;0&quot;,&quot;shutter_speed&quot;:&quot;0&quot;,&quot;title&quot;:&quot;&quot;}\" data-image-title=\"kindergarten readiness\" data-image-description=\"\" data-image-caption=\"\" data-large-file=\"https:\/\/i0.wp.com\/coffeejitters.net\/blog\/wp-content\/uploads\/2014\/06\/kindergarten-readiness.png?fit=640%2C640\" class=\"size-large wp-image-5173 alignright\" title=\"are you ready for kindergarten\" src=\"https:\/\/i0.wp.com\/coffeejitters.net\/blog\/wp-content\/uploads\/2014\/06\/kindergarten-readiness.png?w=300\" alt=\"kindergarten readiness\"  srcset=\"https:\/\/i0.wp.com\/coffeejitters.net\/blog\/wp-content\/uploads\/2014\/06\/kindergarten-readiness.png?resize=640%2C640 640w, https:\/\/i0.wp.com\/coffeejitters.net\/blog\/wp-content\/uploads\/2014\/06\/kindergarten-readiness.png?resize=150%2C150 150w, https:\/\/i0.wp.com\/coffeejitters.net\/blog\/wp-content\/uploads\/2014\/06\/kindergarten-readiness.png?resize=300%2C300 300w, https:\/\/i0.wp.com\/coffeejitters.net\/blog\/wp-content\/uploads\/2014\/06\/kindergarten-readiness.png?w=2000 2000w\" sizes=\"(max-width: 640px) 100vw, 640px\" \/><\/p>\n<p>The information packet introduced the school, advised of upcoming getting-to-know-you playdates at the playground through the summer, and included a list of skills children would need to master in order to be ready for kindergarten.<\/p>\n<p>The <a title=\"kindergarten readiness checklist\" href=\"http:\/\/www.k12.wa.us\/WaKIDS\/pubdocs\/CharacteristicsofEnteringKindergartnersFlyer.pdf\">kindergarten readiness checklist<\/a> is quite long, a couple pages, but it was helpful. It is simple things, such as the kids should know the numbers 1-10, sing the abc song, and go potty independently. Most of the items she mastered long ago, and others, we have the summer to work on. I did give her a long name to learn to spell.<\/p>\n<p>On the other hand, I went through all the documents front and back and saw nothing about kindergarten readiness for parents. So help me out in the comments section. What do I need to do to get ME ready for her to go to kindergarten? What should I be prepared for.<\/p>\n<p>I&#8217;m pretty confident that she&#8217;s more than ready for kindergarten. I&#8217;m not quite so sure about me.<\/p>\n<p>&nbsp;<\/p>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"<p>Prospective kindergartners, along with their parents, shuffled and herded themselves into the little elementary school cafeteria. The room was thick with nervous energy, excitement, squirmy 5-year-olds who have not yet learned to sit still for an assembly, and information packets fanning at the summer heat. 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