{"id":5157,"date":"2014-06-03T13:49:48","date_gmt":"2014-06-03T20:49:48","guid":{"rendered":"http:\/\/coffeejitters.net\/blog\/?p=5157"},"modified":"2022-03-25T18:13:51","modified_gmt":"2022-03-26T01:13:51","slug":"waiting-for-commencement","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"http:\/\/coffeejitters.net\/blog\/2014\/06\/03\/waiting-for-commencement\/","title":{"rendered":"Waiting for commencement"},"content":{"rendered":"\n<p>I took this picture 4 years ago at my husband&#8217;s <a title=\"graduation\" href=\"http:\/\/coffeejitters.net\/blog\/2008\/06\/mr-hs-very-big-day\/\">graduation<\/a>. We were sitting there for hours waiting for the graduates to walk in and the commencement ceremony to begin.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<figure class=\"wp-block-image\"><a href=\"https:\/\/i0.wp.com\/coffeejitters.net\/blog\/wp-content\/uploads\/2014\/06\/waiting-for-commencement.jpg\"><img data-recalc-dims=\"1\" loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" width=\"640\" height=\"480\" data-attachment-id=\"5156\" data-permalink=\"http:\/\/coffeejitters.net\/blog\/waiting-for-commencement\/\" data-orig-file=\"https:\/\/i0.wp.com\/coffeejitters.net\/blog\/wp-content\/uploads\/2014\/06\/waiting-for-commencement.jpg?fit=2048%2C1536\" data-orig-size=\"2048,1536\" data-comments-opened=\"1\" data-image-meta=\"{&quot;aperture&quot;:&quot;4.9&quot;,&quot;credit&quot;:&quot;&quot;,&quot;camera&quot;:&quot;DMC-TZ3&quot;,&quot;caption&quot;:&quot;&quot;,&quot;created_timestamp&quot;:&quot;1213449224&quot;,&quot;copyright&quot;:&quot;&quot;,&quot;focal_length&quot;:&quot;46&quot;,&quot;iso&quot;:&quot;100&quot;,&quot;shutter_speed&quot;:&quot;0.0015625&quot;,&quot;title&quot;:&quot;&quot;}\" data-image-title=\"waiting for commencement\" data-image-description=\"&lt;p&gt;empty chairs before the graduation ceremony&lt;\/p&gt;\n\" data-image-caption=\"\" data-large-file=\"https:\/\/i0.wp.com\/coffeejitters.net\/blog\/wp-content\/uploads\/2014\/06\/waiting-for-commencement.jpg?fit=640%2C480\" src=\"https:\/\/i0.wp.com\/coffeejitters.net\/blog\/wp-content\/uploads\/2014\/06\/waiting-for-commencement.jpg?resize=640%2C480\" alt=\"empty chairs\" class=\"wp-image-5156\" srcset=\"https:\/\/i0.wp.com\/coffeejitters.net\/blog\/wp-content\/uploads\/2014\/06\/waiting-for-commencement.jpg?resize=640%2C480 640w, https:\/\/i0.wp.com\/coffeejitters.net\/blog\/wp-content\/uploads\/2014\/06\/waiting-for-commencement.jpg?resize=300%2C225 300w, https:\/\/i0.wp.com\/coffeejitters.net\/blog\/wp-content\/uploads\/2014\/06\/waiting-for-commencement.jpg?w=2048 2048w\" sizes=\"(max-width: 640px) 100vw, 640px\" \/><\/a><\/figure>\n\n\n\n<p>While we were sun-baked in the bleachers, my husband was waiting in a holding area, before they allowed the graduates to ceremoniously walk in and take their seats.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<figure class=\"wp-block-image\"><a href=\"https:\/\/i0.wp.com\/coffeejitters.net\/blog\/wp-content\/uploads\/2014\/06\/waiting.jpg\"><img data-recalc-dims=\"1\" loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" width=\"640\" height=\"426\" data-attachment-id=\"5158\" data-permalink=\"http:\/\/coffeejitters.net\/blog\/2014\/06\/03\/waiting-for-commencement\/waiting\/\" data-orig-file=\"https:\/\/i0.wp.com\/coffeejitters.net\/blog\/wp-content\/uploads\/2014\/06\/waiting.jpg?fit=1796%2C1197\" data-orig-size=\"1796,1197\" data-comments-opened=\"1\" data-image-meta=\"{&quot;aperture&quot;:&quot;4.9&quot;,&quot;credit&quot;:&quot;&quot;,&quot;camera&quot;:&quot;DMC-TZ3&quot;,&quot;caption&quot;:&quot;&quot;,&quot;created_timestamp&quot;:&quot;1213449176&quot;,&quot;copyright&quot;:&quot;&quot;,&quot;focal_length&quot;:&quot;42&quot;,&quot;iso&quot;:&quot;100&quot;,&quot;shutter_speed&quot;:&quot;0.00625&quot;,&quot;title&quot;:&quot;&quot;}\" data-image-title=\"waiting\" data-image-description=\"&lt;p&gt;graduates in holding area before they walk in for commencement UW&lt;\/p&gt;\n\" data-image-caption=\"\" data-large-file=\"https:\/\/i0.wp.com\/coffeejitters.net\/blog\/wp-content\/uploads\/2014\/06\/waiting.jpg?fit=640%2C426\" src=\"https:\/\/i0.wp.com\/coffeejitters.net\/blog\/wp-content\/uploads\/2014\/06\/waiting.jpg?resize=640%2C426\" alt=\"graduates waiting to walk at commencement\" class=\"wp-image-5158\" srcset=\"https:\/\/i0.wp.com\/coffeejitters.net\/blog\/wp-content\/uploads\/2014\/06\/waiting.jpg?resize=640%2C426 640w, https:\/\/i0.wp.com\/coffeejitters.net\/blog\/wp-content\/uploads\/2014\/06\/waiting.jpg?resize=300%2C199 300w, https:\/\/i0.wp.com\/coffeejitters.net\/blog\/wp-content\/uploads\/2014\/06\/waiting.jpg?w=1796 1796w\" sizes=\"(max-width: 640px) 100vw, 640px\" \/><\/a><\/figure>\n\n\n\n<p>Isn&#8217;t it interesting how so many of the big things often involve so much waiting? The waiting room at the ER, the doctors office,&nbsp;waiting to see if treatment takes hold, waiting for results.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<div class=\"wp-block-image\"><figure class=\"alignleft\"><img data-recalc-dims=\"1\" loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" width=\"411\" height=\"411\" data-attachment-id=\"5159\" data-permalink=\"http:\/\/coffeejitters.net\/blog\/2014\/06\/03\/waiting-for-commencement\/transcript-details\/\" data-orig-file=\"https:\/\/i0.wp.com\/coffeejitters.net\/blog\/wp-content\/uploads\/2014\/06\/transcript-details.png?fit=411%2C411\" data-orig-size=\"411,411\" data-comments-opened=\"1\" data-image-meta=\"{&quot;aperture&quot;:&quot;0&quot;,&quot;credit&quot;:&quot;&quot;,&quot;camera&quot;:&quot;&quot;,&quot;caption&quot;:&quot;&quot;,&quot;created_timestamp&quot;:&quot;0&quot;,&quot;copyright&quot;:&quot;&quot;,&quot;focal_length&quot;:&quot;0&quot;,&quot;iso&quot;:&quot;0&quot;,&quot;shutter_speed&quot;:&quot;0&quot;,&quot;title&quot;:&quot;&quot;}\" data-image-title=\"transcript details\" data-image-description=\"\" data-image-caption=\"\" data-large-file=\"https:\/\/i0.wp.com\/coffeejitters.net\/blog\/wp-content\/uploads\/2014\/06\/transcript-details.png?fit=411%2C411\" src=\"https:\/\/i0.wp.com\/coffeejitters.net\/blog\/wp-content\/uploads\/2014\/06\/transcript-details.png?resize=411%2C411\" alt=\"transcript Judy Schwartz Haley\" class=\"wp-image-5159\" title=\"screenshot of transcript\" srcset=\"https:\/\/i0.wp.com\/coffeejitters.net\/blog\/wp-content\/uploads\/2014\/06\/transcript-details.png?w=411 411w, https:\/\/i0.wp.com\/coffeejitters.net\/blog\/wp-content\/uploads\/2014\/06\/transcript-details.png?resize=150%2C150 150w, https:\/\/i0.wp.com\/coffeejitters.net\/blog\/wp-content\/uploads\/2014\/06\/transcript-details.png?resize=300%2C300 300w\" sizes=\"(max-width: 411px) 100vw, 411px\" \/><\/figure><\/div>\n\n\n\n<p>I hate wait.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p><span style=\"line-height: 1.5em;\">And yet I waited 25 years to finally graduate myself.<\/span><\/p>\n\n\n\n<p><span style=\"line-height: 1.5em;\">I didn&#8217;t walk at graduation, and they won&#8217;t even start mailing the diplomas until July. 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