{"id":4862,"date":"2014-03-04T19:10:56","date_gmt":"2014-03-05T02:10:56","guid":{"rendered":"http:\/\/coffeejitters.net\/blog\/?p=4862"},"modified":"2022-03-25T20:05:08","modified_gmt":"2022-03-26T03:05:08","slug":"still-standing","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"http:\/\/coffeejitters.net\/blog\/2014\/03\/04\/still-standing\/","title":{"rendered":"Still standing"},"content":{"rendered":"\n<div class=\"wp-block-image\"><figure class=\"aligncenter\"><a href=\"http:\/\/coffeejitters.net\/blog\/2014\/03\/still-standing\/battered-butterfly-2\/\" rel=\"attachment wp-att-6727\"><img data-recalc-dims=\"1\" loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" width=\"640\" height=\"425\" data-attachment-id=\"6727\" data-permalink=\"http:\/\/coffeejitters.net\/blog\/2014\/03\/04\/still-standing\/battered-butterfly-2\/\" data-orig-file=\"https:\/\/i0.wp.com\/coffeejitters.net\/blog\/wp-content\/uploads\/2014\/03\/battered-butterfly.png?fit=640%2C425\" data-orig-size=\"640,425\" data-comments-opened=\"1\" data-image-meta=\"{&quot;aperture&quot;:&quot;0&quot;,&quot;credit&quot;:&quot;&quot;,&quot;camera&quot;:&quot;&quot;,&quot;caption&quot;:&quot;&quot;,&quot;created_timestamp&quot;:&quot;0&quot;,&quot;copyright&quot;:&quot;&quot;,&quot;focal_length&quot;:&quot;0&quot;,&quot;iso&quot;:&quot;0&quot;,&quot;shutter_speed&quot;:&quot;0&quot;,&quot;title&quot;:&quot;&quot;}\" data-image-title=\"battered-butterfly\" data-image-description=\"\" data-image-caption=\"\" data-large-file=\"https:\/\/i0.wp.com\/coffeejitters.net\/blog\/wp-content\/uploads\/2014\/03\/battered-butterfly.png?fit=640%2C425\" src=\"https:\/\/i0.wp.com\/coffeejitters.net\/blog\/wp-content\/uploads\/2014\/03\/battered-butterfly.png?resize=640%2C425\" alt=\"battered butterfly - CoffeeJitters.Net\" class=\"wp-image-6727\" srcset=\"https:\/\/i0.wp.com\/coffeejitters.net\/blog\/wp-content\/uploads\/2014\/03\/battered-butterfly.png?w=640 640w, https:\/\/i0.wp.com\/coffeejitters.net\/blog\/wp-content\/uploads\/2014\/03\/battered-butterfly.png?resize=300%2C199 300w\" sizes=\"(max-width: 640px) 100vw, 640px\" \/><\/a><\/figure><\/div>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">battered<br \/>bruised<br \/>scarred<br \/>tenacious<br \/>beautiful<br \/>Inspired by a butterfly.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">February was a difficult month. We moved, which is always stressful, and then there was all the homework for school, and all that was compounded by my illness and two hospitalizations during the month. My mom ended up coming out for a couple weeks, and that was a big help. Now, we are completely out of the old place now, and I just have to unpack at the new place. I&#8217;ll be tackling that chore at a much slower pace.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">In the meantime, I&#8217;m feeling much better now, and we love love love our new Seattle neighborhood. We&#8217;ve had a blast spending the last few days exploring. Now that we survived the move, I can see that this new place will be a good change for us. We&#8217;ve already made a few new friends \ud83d\ude42<\/p>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"<p>Inspired by a butterfly. February was a difficult month. 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