{"id":4331,"date":"2013-06-11T22:05:59","date_gmt":"2013-06-12T05:05:59","guid":{"rendered":"http:\/\/coffeejitters.net\/blog\/?p=4331"},"modified":"2021-03-19T11:40:18","modified_gmt":"2021-03-19T18:40:18","slug":"a-circle-of-women","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"http:\/\/coffeejitters.net\/blog\/2013\/06\/11\/a-circle-of-women\/","title":{"rendered":"A circle of women"},"content":{"rendered":"<p><a title=\"A circle of women\" href=\"http:\/\/www.peacelovefree.com\/2012\/03\/23\/a-circle-of-women\/\">A circle of women.<\/a><\/p>\n<p>28 women, all whom I adore.<\/p>\n<p>28 women finding ways to <em>squeeze<\/em> the day, every day, while living with cancer and it&#8217;s after effects.<\/p>\n<p><img data-recalc-dims=\"1\" decoding=\"async\" data-attachment-id=\"4335\" data-permalink=\"http:\/\/coffeejitters.net\/blog\/2013\/06\/11\/a-circle-of-women\/011-4\/\" data-orig-file=\"https:\/\/i0.wp.com\/coffeejitters.net\/blog\/wp-content\/uploads\/2013\/06\/011.jpg?fit=2049%2C2049\" data-orig-size=\"2049,2049\" data-comments-opened=\"1\" data-image-meta=\"{&quot;aperture&quot;:&quot;3.3&quot;,&quot;credit&quot;:&quot;&quot;,&quot;camera&quot;:&quot;DMC-TZ3&quot;,&quot;caption&quot;:&quot;&quot;,&quot;created_timestamp&quot;:&quot;1370645339&quot;,&quot;copyright&quot;:&quot;&quot;,&quot;focal_length&quot;:&quot;4.6&quot;,&quot;iso&quot;:&quot;800&quot;,&quot;shutter_speed&quot;:&quot;0.076923076923077&quot;,&quot;title&quot;:&quot;&quot;}\" data-image-title=\"011\" data-image-description=\"\" data-image-caption=\"\" data-large-file=\"https:\/\/i0.wp.com\/coffeejitters.net\/blog\/wp-content\/uploads\/2013\/06\/011.jpg?fit=640%2C640\" class=\"alignnone size-full wp-image-4335\" style=\"font-size: 13px; line-height: 19px;\" src=\"https:\/\/i0.wp.com\/coffeejitters.net\/blog\/wp-content\/uploads\/2013\/06\/011.jpg?w=640\" alt=\"011\"  srcset=\"https:\/\/i0.wp.com\/coffeejitters.net\/blog\/wp-content\/uploads\/2013\/06\/011.jpg?w=2049 2049w, https:\/\/i0.wp.com\/coffeejitters.net\/blog\/wp-content\/uploads\/2013\/06\/011.jpg?resize=150%2C150 150w, https:\/\/i0.wp.com\/coffeejitters.net\/blog\/wp-content\/uploads\/2013\/06\/011.jpg?resize=300%2C300 300w, https:\/\/i0.wp.com\/coffeejitters.net\/blog\/wp-content\/uploads\/2013\/06\/011.jpg?resize=640%2C640 640w\" sizes=\"(max-width: 1080px) 100vw, 1080px\" \/><\/p>\n<p>Every year we converge on this little retreat center in the woods, on the edge of the canal.<\/p>\n<p>Every year we laugh, we cry, we eat, drink, and dance,<\/p>\n<p><img data-recalc-dims=\"1\" decoding=\"async\" data-attachment-id=\"4334\" data-permalink=\"http:\/\/coffeejitters.net\/blog\/2013\/06\/11\/a-circle-of-women\/attachment\/096\/\" data-orig-file=\"https:\/\/i0.wp.com\/coffeejitters.net\/blog\/wp-content\/uploads\/2013\/06\/096.jpg?fit=2848%2C2848\" data-orig-size=\"2848,2848\" data-comments-opened=\"1\" data-image-meta=\"{&quot;aperture&quot;:&quot;3.5&quot;,&quot;credit&quot;:&quot;&quot;,&quot;camera&quot;:&quot;NIKON D5000&quot;,&quot;caption&quot;:&quot;&quot;,&quot;created_timestamp&quot;:&quot;1294263577&quot;,&quot;copyright&quot;:&quot;&quot;,&quot;focal_length&quot;:&quot;18&quot;,&quot;iso&quot;:&quot;800&quot;,&quot;shutter_speed&quot;:&quot;0.033333333333333&quot;,&quot;title&quot;:&quot;&quot;}\" data-image-title=\"096\" data-image-description=\"\" data-image-caption=\"\" data-large-file=\"https:\/\/i0.wp.com\/coffeejitters.net\/blog\/wp-content\/uploads\/2013\/06\/096.jpg?fit=640%2C640\" class=\"alignnone size-full wp-image-4334\" src=\"https:\/\/i0.wp.com\/coffeejitters.net\/blog\/wp-content\/uploads\/2013\/06\/096.jpg?w=640\" alt=\"096\"  srcset=\"https:\/\/i0.wp.com\/coffeejitters.net\/blog\/wp-content\/uploads\/2013\/06\/096.jpg?w=2848 2848w, https:\/\/i0.wp.com\/coffeejitters.net\/blog\/wp-content\/uploads\/2013\/06\/096.jpg?resize=150%2C150 150w, https:\/\/i0.wp.com\/coffeejitters.net\/blog\/wp-content\/uploads\/2013\/06\/096.jpg?resize=300%2C300 300w, https:\/\/i0.wp.com\/coffeejitters.net\/blog\/wp-content\/uploads\/2013\/06\/096.jpg?resize=640%2C640 640w, https:\/\/i0.wp.com\/coffeejitters.net\/blog\/wp-content\/uploads\/2013\/06\/096.jpg?w=2160 2160w\" sizes=\"(max-width: 1080px) 100vw, 1080px\" \/><\/p>\n<p>We challenge each other,\u00a0we hold each other up.<\/p>\n<p>And even more importantly, we rest, and we are cared for.<\/p>\n<p><img data-recalc-dims=\"1\" decoding=\"async\" data-attachment-id=\"4336\" data-permalink=\"http:\/\/coffeejitters.net\/blog\/2013\/06\/11\/a-circle-of-women\/attachment\/042\/\" data-orig-file=\"https:\/\/i0.wp.com\/coffeejitters.net\/blog\/wp-content\/uploads\/2013\/06\/042.jpg?fit=2817%2C1881\" data-orig-size=\"2817,1881\" data-comments-opened=\"1\" data-image-meta=\"{&quot;aperture&quot;:&quot;3.3&quot;,&quot;credit&quot;:&quot;&quot;,&quot;camera&quot;:&quot;DMC-TZ3&quot;,&quot;caption&quot;:&quot;&quot;,&quot;created_timestamp&quot;:&quot;1370715089&quot;,&quot;copyright&quot;:&quot;&quot;,&quot;focal_length&quot;:&quot;4.6&quot;,&quot;iso&quot;:&quot;100&quot;,&quot;shutter_speed&quot;:&quot;0.004&quot;,&quot;title&quot;:&quot;&quot;}\" data-image-title=\"042\" data-image-description=\"\" data-image-caption=\"\" data-large-file=\"https:\/\/i0.wp.com\/coffeejitters.net\/blog\/wp-content\/uploads\/2013\/06\/042.jpg?fit=640%2C427\" class=\"alignnone size-full wp-image-4336\" style=\"font-size: 13px; line-height: 19px;\" src=\"https:\/\/i0.wp.com\/coffeejitters.net\/blog\/wp-content\/uploads\/2013\/06\/042.jpg?w=640\" alt=\"042\"  srcset=\"https:\/\/i0.wp.com\/coffeejitters.net\/blog\/wp-content\/uploads\/2013\/06\/042.jpg?w=2817 2817w, https:\/\/i0.wp.com\/coffeejitters.net\/blog\/wp-content\/uploads\/2013\/06\/042.jpg?resize=300%2C200 300w, https:\/\/i0.wp.com\/coffeejitters.net\/blog\/wp-content\/uploads\/2013\/06\/042.jpg?resize=640%2C427 640w, https:\/\/i0.wp.com\/coffeejitters.net\/blog\/wp-content\/uploads\/2013\/06\/042.jpg?w=2160 2160w\" sizes=\"(max-width: 1080px) 100vw, 1080px\" \/><\/p>\n<p>Every year I come back home feeling two inches taller.<\/p>\n<p><a href=\"https:\/\/i0.wp.com\/coffeejitters.net\/blog\/wp-content\/uploads\/2013\/06\/HH2013.jpg\"><img data-recalc-dims=\"1\" decoding=\"async\" data-attachment-id=\"4332\" data-permalink=\"http:\/\/coffeejitters.net\/blog\/2013\/06\/11\/a-circle-of-women\/hh2013\/\" data-orig-file=\"https:\/\/i0.wp.com\/coffeejitters.net\/blog\/wp-content\/uploads\/2013\/06\/HH2013.jpg?fit=2172%2C1448\" data-orig-size=\"2172,1448\" data-comments-opened=\"1\" data-image-meta=\"{&quot;aperture&quot;:&quot;9&quot;,&quot;credit&quot;:&quot;&quot;,&quot;camera&quot;:&quot;NIKON D5000&quot;,&quot;caption&quot;:&quot;&quot;,&quot;created_timestamp&quot;:&quot;1294314787&quot;,&quot;copyright&quot;:&quot;&quot;,&quot;focal_length&quot;:&quot;22&quot;,&quot;iso&quot;:&quot;200&quot;,&quot;shutter_speed&quot;:&quot;0.01&quot;,&quot;title&quot;:&quot;&quot;}\" data-image-title=\"Harmony-Hill-ysc-2013\" data-image-description=\"&lt;p&gt;a circle of young women supporting each other through breast cancer&lt;\/p&gt;\n\" data-image-caption=\"\" data-large-file=\"https:\/\/i0.wp.com\/coffeejitters.net\/blog\/wp-content\/uploads\/2013\/06\/HH2013.jpg?fit=640%2C426\" class=\"alignnone size-full wp-image-4332\" src=\"https:\/\/i0.wp.com\/coffeejitters.net\/blog\/wp-content\/uploads\/2013\/06\/HH2013.jpg?w=640\" alt=\"HH2013\"  srcset=\"https:\/\/i0.wp.com\/coffeejitters.net\/blog\/wp-content\/uploads\/2013\/06\/HH2013.jpg?w=2172 2172w, https:\/\/i0.wp.com\/coffeejitters.net\/blog\/wp-content\/uploads\/2013\/06\/HH2013.jpg?resize=300%2C200 300w, https:\/\/i0.wp.com\/coffeejitters.net\/blog\/wp-content\/uploads\/2013\/06\/HH2013.jpg?resize=640%2C426 640w\" sizes=\"(max-width: 1080px) 100vw, 1080px\" \/><\/a><\/p>\n<p>P.S. This year, I brought a spare camera and handed it over to the group, asking them to take pictures as well. I&#8217;m so glad I did. I came home with pictures that were complete surprises to me, and this year, I was so engaged in just being present that I hardly took any pictures at all. Thanks so much to my friends for picking up the slack.<\/p>\n<p>P.P.S. The link in the first line will take you to the poem I read at the retreat. It resonated so profoundly with so many of us, and I received many requests for copies. 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