{"id":3103,"date":"2011-08-18T18:57:08","date_gmt":"2011-08-19T01:57:08","guid":{"rendered":"http:\/\/coffeejitters.net\/blog\/?p=3103"},"modified":"2014-08-06T23:19:35","modified_gmt":"2014-08-07T06:19:35","slug":"10-things-i-should-learn-from-my-daughter","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"http:\/\/coffeejitters.net\/blog\/2011\/08\/18\/10-things-i-should-learn-from-my-daughter\/","title":{"rendered":"10 things I should learn from my daughter"},"content":{"rendered":"<p><a href=\"http:\/\/coffeejitters.net\/blog\/2011\/08\/10-things-i-should-learn-from-my-daughter\/learn-from-my-daughter\/\" rel=\"attachment wp-att-6464\"><img data-recalc-dims=\"1\" loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" data-attachment-id=\"6464\" data-permalink=\"http:\/\/coffeejitters.net\/blog\/2011\/08\/18\/10-things-i-should-learn-from-my-daughter\/learn-from-my-daughter\/\" data-orig-file=\"https:\/\/i0.wp.com\/coffeejitters.net\/blog\/wp-content\/uploads\/2011\/08\/learn-from-my-daughter.png?fit=668%2C508\" data-orig-size=\"668,508\" data-comments-opened=\"1\" data-image-meta=\"{&quot;aperture&quot;:&quot;0&quot;,&quot;credit&quot;:&quot;&quot;,&quot;camera&quot;:&quot;&quot;,&quot;caption&quot;:&quot;&quot;,&quot;created_timestamp&quot;:&quot;0&quot;,&quot;copyright&quot;:&quot;&quot;,&quot;focal_length&quot;:&quot;0&quot;,&quot;iso&quot;:&quot;0&quot;,&quot;shutter_speed&quot;:&quot;0&quot;,&quot;title&quot;:&quot;&quot;}\" data-image-title=\"learn-from-my-daughter\" data-image-description=\"\" data-image-caption=\"\" data-large-file=\"https:\/\/i0.wp.com\/coffeejitters.net\/blog\/wp-content\/uploads\/2011\/08\/learn-from-my-daughter.png?fit=640%2C486\" class=\"aligncenter size-large wp-image-6464\" src=\"https:\/\/i0.wp.com\/coffeejitters.net\/blog\/wp-content\/uploads\/2011\/08\/learn-from-my-daughter.png?resize=640%2C486\" alt=\"10 things I should learn from my daughter\" width=\"640\" height=\"486\" srcset=\"https:\/\/i0.wp.com\/coffeejitters.net\/blog\/wp-content\/uploads\/2011\/08\/learn-from-my-daughter.png?resize=640%2C486 640w, https:\/\/i0.wp.com\/coffeejitters.net\/blog\/wp-content\/uploads\/2011\/08\/learn-from-my-daughter.png?resize=300%2C228 300w, https:\/\/i0.wp.com\/coffeejitters.net\/blog\/wp-content\/uploads\/2011\/08\/learn-from-my-daughter.png?w=668 668w\" sizes=\"(max-width: 640px) 100vw, 640px\" \/><\/a><\/p>\n<p>1. When you put on a pretty dress &#8211; twirl.<\/p>\n<p>2. A hug and a kiss really can make you feel better.<\/p>\n<p>3. Be upfront with people. Ask for what you want (remember to say please), and name your feelings. &#8220;I want some ice cream,&#8221; and &#8220;I&#8217;m sad&#8221; are a lot easier to deal with than non-specific pouting. Even if Mommy already ate all the ice cream.<\/p>\n<p>4.\u00a0There is almost always enough time for a snuggle.<\/p>\n<p>5. Spend a little time coloring, drawing, or otherwise being creative every day.<\/p>\n<p>6. Sing out loud when you are happy &#8211; it multiplies your joy, and it makes other people smile too. Even if it&#8217;s just in amusement.<\/p>\n<p>7. Dance in the living room &#8211; who cares if the windows are open.<\/p>\n<p>8. Playing is serious business.<\/p>\n<p>9. Naptime is like hitting the RESET button on the day.<\/p>\n<p>10. Everything is Amazing!<\/p>\n<p>&nbsp;<\/p>\n<p><a href=\"http:\/\/www.mamakatslosinit.com\/\" target=\"_blank\"><img data-recalc-dims=\"1\" decoding=\"async\" src=\"https:\/\/i0.wp.com\/i913.photobucket.com\/albums\/ac331\/mamakatslosinit\/workshop-button-1.png?w=1080\" alt=\"Mama\u2019s Losin\u2019 It\" \/><\/a><\/p>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"<p>1. When you put on a pretty dress &#8211; twirl. 2. A hug and a kiss really can make you feel better. 3. Be upfront with people. Ask for what you want (remember to say please), and name your feelings. &#8220;I want some ice cream,&#8221; and &#8220;I&#8217;m sad&#8221; are a lot easier to deal with [&hellip;]<\/p>\n","protected":false},"author":1,"featured_media":6464,"comment_status":"open","ping_status":"closed","sticky":false,"template":"","format":"standard","meta":{"_et_pb_use_builder":"","_et_pb_old_content":"","_et_gb_content_width":"","advanced_seo_description":"","jetpack_seo_html_title":"","jetpack_seo_noindex":false,"_jetpack_newsletter_access":"","_jetpack_dont_email_post_to_subs":false,"_jetpack_newsletter_tier_id":0,"_jetpack_memberships_contains_paywalled_content":false,"_jetpack_feature_clip_id":0,"_jetpack_memberships_contains_paid_content":false,"footnotes":"","jetpack_publicize_message":"","jetpack_publicize_feature_enabled":true,"jetpack_social_post_already_shared":false,"jetpack_social_options":{"image_generator_settings":{"template":"highway","default_image_id":0,"font":"","enabled":false},"version":2},"jetpack_post_was_ever_published":false},"categories":[699,694,138],"tags":[272,796],"class_list":["post-3103","post","type-post","status-publish","format-standard","has-post-thumbnail","hentry","category-inspiration-living-well","category-living-well","category-parenting-living-well","tag-gem","tag-learning","et-has-post-format-content","et_post_format-et-post-format-standard"],"jetpack_publicize_connections":[],"jetpack_featured_media_url":"https:\/\/i0.wp.com\/coffeejitters.net\/blog\/wp-content\/uploads\/2011\/08\/learn-from-my-daughter.png?fit=668%2C508","blog_post_layout_featured_media_urls":{"thumbnail":["https:\/\/i0.wp.com\/coffeejitters.net\/blog\/wp-content\/uploads\/2011\/08\/learn-from-my-daughter.png?resize=150%2C150",150,150,true],"full":["https:\/\/i0.wp.com\/coffeejitters.net\/blog\/wp-content\/uploads\/2011\/08\/learn-from-my-daughter.png?fit=668%2C508",668,508,false]},"categories_names":{"699":{"name":"Inspiration","link":"http:\/\/coffeejitters.net\/blog\/category\/life-skills\/inspiration-living-well\/"},"694":{"name":"Living Well","link":"http:\/\/coffeejitters.net\/blog\/category\/living-well\/"},"138":{"name":"Parenting &amp; Family","link":"http:\/\/coffeejitters.net\/blog\/category\/parenting-living-well\/"}},"tags_names":{"272":{"name":"gem","link":"http:\/\/coffeejitters.net\/blog\/tag\/gem\/"},"796":{"name":"learning","link":"http:\/\/coffeejitters.net\/blog\/tag\/learning\/"}},"comments_number":0,"wpmagazine_modules_lite_featured_media_urls":{"thumbnail":["https:\/\/i0.wp.com\/coffeejitters.net\/blog\/wp-content\/uploads\/2011\/08\/learn-from-my-daughter.png?resize=150%2C150",150,150,true],"cvmm-medium":["https:\/\/i0.wp.com\/coffeejitters.net\/blog\/wp-content\/uploads\/2011\/08\/learn-from-my-daughter.png?resize=300%2C300",300,300,true],"cvmm-medium-plus":["https:\/\/i0.wp.com\/coffeejitters.net\/blog\/wp-content\/uploads\/2011\/08\/learn-from-my-daughter.png?resize=305%2C207",305,207,true],"cvmm-portrait":["https:\/\/i0.wp.com\/coffeejitters.net\/blog\/wp-content\/uploads\/2011\/08\/learn-from-my-daughter.png?resize=400%2C508",400,508,true],"cvmm-medium-square":["https:\/\/i0.wp.com\/coffeejitters.net\/blog\/wp-content\/uploads\/2011\/08\/learn-from-my-daughter.png?resize=600%2C508",600,508,true],"cvmm-large":["https:\/\/i0.wp.com\/coffeejitters.net\/blog\/wp-content\/uploads\/2011\/08\/learn-from-my-daughter.png?resize=668%2C508",668,508,true],"cvmm-small":["https:\/\/i0.wp.com\/coffeejitters.net\/blog\/wp-content\/uploads\/2011\/08\/learn-from-my-daughter.png?resize=130%2C95",130,95,true],"full":["https:\/\/i0.wp.com\/coffeejitters.net\/blog\/wp-content\/uploads\/2011\/08\/learn-from-my-daughter.png?fit=668%2C508",668,508,false]},"jetpack_sharing_enabled":true,"jetpack_shortlink":"https:\/\/wp.me\/p1fDeG-O3","jetpack-related-posts":[{"id":224,"url":"http:\/\/coffeejitters.net\/blog\/2008\/06\/04\/time-to-clean-out-the-flickr-pool\/","url_meta":{"origin":3103,"position":0},"title":"Time to Clean out the Flickr Pool","author":"Judy Schwartz Haley","date":"","format":false,"excerpt":"Ok, well this is just a little bit ridiculous. 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