{"id":3000,"date":"2011-07-14T00:21:55","date_gmt":"2011-07-14T07:21:55","guid":{"rendered":"http:\/\/coffeejitters.net\/blog\/?p=3000"},"modified":"2014-07-05T14:10:00","modified_gmt":"2014-07-05T21:10:00","slug":"dear-gem-month-27","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"http:\/\/coffeejitters.net\/blog\/2011\/07\/14\/dear-gem-month-27\/","title":{"rendered":"Dear Gem &#8211; Month 27"},"content":{"rendered":"<p>Last month you spent more than 3000 miles in the back seat of grandma&#8217;s overpacked car. \u00a0It took us 10 days to drive from Seattle, Washington, to Soldotna, Alaska. But then we took the long way through the Canadian Rockies, and did a little sight seeing as well.<\/p>\n<p><a href=\"https:\/\/i0.wp.com\/coffeejitters.net\/blog\/wp-content\/uploads\/2011\/07\/alaskatrip.jpg\"><img data-recalc-dims=\"1\" loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" data-attachment-id=\"3001\" data-permalink=\"http:\/\/coffeejitters.net\/blog\/2011\/07\/14\/dear-gem-month-27\/alaskatrip\/\" data-orig-file=\"https:\/\/i0.wp.com\/coffeejitters.net\/blog\/wp-content\/uploads\/2011\/07\/alaskatrip.jpg?fit=535%2C457\" data-orig-size=\"535,457\" data-comments-opened=\"1\" data-image-meta=\"{&quot;aperture&quot;:&quot;0&quot;,&quot;credit&quot;:&quot;&quot;,&quot;camera&quot;:&quot;&quot;,&quot;caption&quot;:&quot;&quot;,&quot;created_timestamp&quot;:&quot;0&quot;,&quot;copyright&quot;:&quot;&quot;,&quot;focal_length&quot;:&quot;0&quot;,&quot;iso&quot;:&quot;0&quot;,&quot;shutter_speed&quot;:&quot;0&quot;,&quot;title&quot;:&quot;&quot;}\" data-image-title=\"alaskatrip\" data-image-description=\"\" data-image-caption=\"\" data-large-file=\"https:\/\/i0.wp.com\/coffeejitters.net\/blog\/wp-content\/uploads\/2011\/07\/alaskatrip.jpg?fit=535%2C457\" class=\"alignnone size-full wp-image-3001\" title=\"alaskatrip\" src=\"https:\/\/i0.wp.com\/coffeejitters.net\/blog\/wp-content\/uploads\/2011\/07\/alaskatrip.jpg?resize=535%2C457\" alt=\"\" width=\"535\" height=\"457\" srcset=\"https:\/\/i0.wp.com\/coffeejitters.net\/blog\/wp-content\/uploads\/2011\/07\/alaskatrip.jpg?w=535 535w, https:\/\/i0.wp.com\/coffeejitters.net\/blog\/wp-content\/uploads\/2011\/07\/alaskatrip.jpg?resize=300%2C256 300w\" sizes=\"(max-width: 535px) 100vw, 535px\" \/><\/a><br \/>\n<small><a style=\"color: #0000ff; text-align: left;\" href=\"http:\/\/maps.google.com\/maps?f=d&amp;source=embed&amp;saddr=Seattle,+WA&amp;daddr=47.58861,-120.67522+to:47.69836,-116.78675+to:51.18706,-115.58629+to:53.53666,-117.82121+to:Soldotna,+AK&amp;hl=en&amp;geocode=FcJp1gIdWVy1-ClVM-iTLBCQVDGa1URpRmUlEA%3BFQIl1gIdbKTO-CmhQahVB06aVDFlwdzvX2EZFg%3BFbjR1wIdwvkJ-SlhvUB5w8ZhUzE6i1Yip2d7mQ%3BFXQNDQMdDksc-SmVMsGgfcpwUzHBx-XHOJbHBg%3BFZTnMAMd5jD6-CkV3jbdYpucUzGW2E3LN2sDeg%3BFWL4mgMdYwj_9ik_vkB3YWHGVjH-7nNkYGV_VA&amp;mra=dpe&amp;mrsp=4&amp;sz=8&amp;via=1,2,3,4&amp;sll=52.965184,-119.157715&amp;sspn=1.869313,5.410767&amp;ie=UTF8&amp;ll=53.774689,-120.157471&amp;spn=1.869313,5.410767\">View Larger Map<\/a><\/small><\/p>\n<p>I was a little worried about how you would handle all that change, and all that time in the car, but you were a little champ. It turns out that you are a great traveler.<\/p>\n<p>You tolerated the tight quarters<br \/>\n<a title=\"322 by coffeejitters, on Flickr\" href=\"http:\/\/www.flickr.com\/photos\/coffeejitters\/5936324312\/\"><img data-recalc-dims=\"1\" loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" src=\"https:\/\/i0.wp.com\/farm7.static.flickr.com\/6139\/5936324312_18b19d2b05_z.jpg?resize=425%2C640\" alt=\"322\" width=\"425\" height=\"640\" \/><\/a><\/p>\n<p>You slept in a different hotel every night<br \/>\n<a title=\"002 by coffeejitters, on Flickr\" href=\"http:\/\/www.flickr.com\/photos\/coffeejitters\/5936365960\/\"><img data-recalc-dims=\"1\" loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" src=\"https:\/\/i0.wp.com\/farm7.static.flickr.com\/6145\/5936365960_783481ab03_z.jpg?resize=640%2C425\" alt=\"002\" width=\"640\" height=\"425\" \/><\/a><\/p>\n<p>You picked too many dandelions to count<br \/>\n<a title=\"045 by coffeejitters, on Flickr\" href=\"http:\/\/www.flickr.com\/photos\/coffeejitters\/5935775251\/\"><img 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