{"id":27,"date":"2005-08-30T13:12:00","date_gmt":"2005-08-30T20:12:00","guid":{"rendered":"http:\/\/coffeejitters.net\/blog\/?p=27"},"modified":"2021-03-17T20:31:35","modified_gmt":"2021-03-18T03:31:35","slug":"better-off-dead","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"http:\/\/coffeejitters.net\/blog\/2005\/08\/30\/better-off-dead\/","title":{"rendered":"Better Off Dead"},"content":{"rendered":"<p><a href=\"https:\/\/i0.wp.com\/photos1.blogger.com\/blogger\/7188\/1488\/1600\/91m.jpg\"><img data-recalc-dims=\"1\" decoding=\"async\" style=\"FLOAT: left; MARGIN: 0px 10px 10px 0px; CURSOR: hand\" alt=\"\" src=\"https:\/\/i0.wp.com\/photos1.blogger.com\/blogger\/7188\/1488\/320\/91m.jpg?w=1080\" border=\"0\" \/><\/a><br \/>This past weekend I discovered that Mr. H had never seen the movie &#8220;<em>Better off Dead<\/em>.&#8221; This cult classic that most people of my generation (sub generation &#8211; should probably narrow it down to an ~8 year time span) can quote along with each line.<\/p>\n<p>Suddenly I&#8217;m questioning all those times he nodded along with me as I spouted off some quote from the movie that had relevance to our life &#8211; an education was in order if he was to really get what I was getting at.<\/p>\n<p>I went to my film archives (what a geek) to dig out the VHS tape, but didn&#8217;t find it until after we broke down and rented a copy.<\/p>\n<p>How did he like it? Hmmm, he laughed at the appropriate places but I don&#8217;t think it will ever hold the same significance for him as it did for me.<\/p>\n<p>A couple of months before the wedding my youngest brother, Steve, and my Dad had to sit him down and introduce him to <em>The Blues Brothers<\/em>.<\/p>\n<p>his education continues&#8230;<\/p>\n<div class=\"blogger-post-footer\">\u00a9 Copyright Judy Haley 2008. All rights reserved.<\/div>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"<p>This past weekend I discovered that Mr. H had never seen the movie &#8220;Better off Dead.&#8221; This cult classic that most people of my generation (sub generation &#8211; should probably narrow it down to an ~8 year time span) can quote along with each line. Suddenly I&#8217;m questioning all those times he nodded along with [&hellip;]<\/p>\n","protected":false},"author":1,"featured_media":0,"comment_status":"open","ping_status":"closed","sticky":false,"template":"","format":"standard","meta":{"_et_pb_use_builder":"","_et_pb_old_content":"","_et_gb_content_width":"","advanced_seo_description":"","jetpack_seo_html_title":"","jetpack_seo_noindex":false,"jetpack_seo_schema_type":"","_jetpack_newsletter_access":"","_jetpack_dont_email_post_to_subs":false,"_jetpack_newsletter_tier_id":0,"_jetpack_memberships_contains_paywalled_content":false,"_jetpack_feature_clip_id":0,"_jetpack_memberships_contains_paid_content":false,"footnotes":"","jetpack_publicize_message":"","jetpack_publicize_feature_enabled":true,"jetpack_social_post_already_shared":false,"jetpack_social_options":{"image_generator_settings":{"template":"highway","default_image_id":0,"font":"","enabled":false},"version":2},"jetpack_post_was_ever_published":false},"categories":[762],"tags":[198,27,28,26,13],"class_list":["post-27","post","type-post","status-publish","format-standard","hentry","category-daily-life-living-well","tag-amusements","tag-dad","tag-extended-family","tag-movies","tag-mr-h","et-doesnt-have-format-content","et_post_format-et-post-format-standard"],"jetpack_publicize_connections":[],"jetpack_featured_media_url":"","blog_post_layout_featured_media_urls":{"thumbnail":"","full":""},"categories_names":{"762":{"name":"Daily Life","link":"http:\/\/coffeejitters.net\/blog\/category\/living-well\/daily-life-living-well\/"}},"tags_names":{"198":{"name":"Amusements","link":"http:\/\/coffeejitters.net\/blog\/tag\/amusements\/"},"27":{"name":"dad","link":"http:\/\/coffeejitters.net\/blog\/tag\/dad\/"},"28":{"name":"Extended Family","link":"http:\/\/coffeejitters.net\/blog\/tag\/extended-family\/"},"26":{"name":"movies","link":"http:\/\/coffeejitters.net\/blog\/tag\/movies\/"},"13":{"name":"The Husband","link":"http:\/\/coffeejitters.net\/blog\/tag\/mr-h\/"}},"comments_number":0,"wpmagazine_modules_lite_featured_media_urls":{"thumbnail":"","cvmm-medium":"","cvmm-medium-plus":"","cvmm-portrait":"","cvmm-medium-square":"","cvmm-large":"","cvmm-small":"","full":""},"jetpack_sharing_enabled":true,"jetpack_shortlink":"https:\/\/wp.me\/p1fDeG-r","jetpack-related-posts":[{"id":97,"url":"http:\/\/coffeejitters.net\/blog\/2006\/05\/05\/must-see-movies\/","url_meta":{"origin":27,"position":0},"title":"Must See Movies","author":"Judy Schwartz Haley","date":"","format":false,"excerpt":"rogerebert.com lists the following 102 must see movies... 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