{"id":1707,"date":"2010-03-30T18:56:12","date_gmt":"2010-03-31T01:56:12","guid":{"rendered":"http:\/\/coffeejitters.net\/blog\/?p=1707"},"modified":"2018-10-13T22:51:44","modified_gmt":"2018-10-14T05:51:44","slug":"pondering-the-reconstruction-era","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"http:\/\/coffeejitters.net\/blog\/2010\/03\/30\/pondering-the-reconstruction-era\/","title":{"rendered":"Pondering the Reconstruction Era"},"content":{"rendered":"<p>I started the morning posing for topless photos in the harsh clinical light of the plastic surgeon&#8217;s office. I hadn&#8217;t given much thought to what the ambiance might be like should I ever pose topless, but doctors in lab coats with a changing curtain for a backdrop never crossed my mind. If you told me a year ago I&#8217;d be in a plastic surgeon&#8217;s office fondling samples of silicon and saline breast implants I would have laughed at you. While there are a few parts of my body that could use a tune-up, my breast size was not exactly inadequate.<\/p>\n<p>My belly size is also not inadequate. The camera and I had a bit of a disagreement as to whether or not I sucked in my belly for the exposure. I swear I sucked in my belly, but the camera won that round, and round belly is permanently preserved in the before shots in my medical records.<\/p>\n<p>As it turns out, that&#8217;s not all bad. I happen to be a good candidate for a DIEP procedure, which means instead of using artificial implants like saline or silicon, the reconstruction involves\u00a0my belly fat up to rebuild my breasts. Double Bonus Points!!<\/p>\n<p>My big takeaway for today is that there is life after breast cancer &#8211; and it comes with perky tatas!<\/p>\n<p><a href=\"http:\/\/coffeejitters.net\/blog\/2009\/07\/pnw-highland-games-2009\/bird-2\/\" rel=\"attachment wp-att-8241\"><img data-recalc-dims=\"1\" loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" data-attachment-id=\"8241\" data-permalink=\"http:\/\/coffeejitters.net\/blog\/2009\/07\/28\/pnw-highland-games-2009\/bird-2\/\" data-orig-file=\"https:\/\/i0.wp.com\/coffeejitters.net\/blog\/wp-content\/uploads\/2009\/07\/bird-2.png?fit=640%2C457\" data-orig-size=\"640,457\" data-comments-opened=\"1\" data-image-meta=\"{&quot;aperture&quot;:&quot;0&quot;,&quot;credit&quot;:&quot;&quot;,&quot;camera&quot;:&quot;&quot;,&quot;caption&quot;:&quot;&quot;,&quot;created_timestamp&quot;:&quot;0&quot;,&quot;copyright&quot;:&quot;&quot;,&quot;focal_length&quot;:&quot;0&quot;,&quot;iso&quot;:&quot;0&quot;,&quot;shutter_speed&quot;:&quot;0&quot;,&quot;title&quot;:&quot;&quot;,&quot;orientation&quot;:&quot;0&quot;}\" data-image-title=\"bird-2\" data-image-description=\"\" data-image-caption=\"\" data-large-file=\"https:\/\/i0.wp.com\/coffeejitters.net\/blog\/wp-content\/uploads\/2009\/07\/bird-2.png?fit=640%2C457\" class=\"aligncenter wp-image-8241 size-medium\" src=\"https:\/\/i0.wp.com\/coffeejitters.net\/blog\/wp-content\/uploads\/2009\/07\/bird-2.png?resize=300%2C214\" alt=\"bird-2\" width=\"300\" height=\"214\" srcset=\"https:\/\/i0.wp.com\/coffeejitters.net\/blog\/wp-content\/uploads\/2009\/07\/bird-2.png?resize=300%2C214 300w, https:\/\/i0.wp.com\/coffeejitters.net\/blog\/wp-content\/uploads\/2009\/07\/bird-2.png?w=640 640w, https:\/\/i0.wp.com\/coffeejitters.net\/blog\/wp-content\/uploads\/2009\/07\/bird-2.png?resize=106%2C75 106w, https:\/\/i0.wp.com\/coffeejitters.net\/blog\/wp-content\/uploads\/2009\/07\/bird-2.png?resize=82%2C57 82w\" sizes=\"(max-width: 300px) 100vw, 300px\" \/><\/a><\/p>\n<p>You can learn more about my cancer story here:<\/p>\n<p style=\"text-align: center;\"><a href=\"http:\/\/coffeejitters.net\/blog\/2014\/04\/the-big-c-and-me-my-cancer-story\/\"><img data-recalc-dims=\"1\" loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" data-attachment-id=\"4957\" data-permalink=\"http:\/\/coffeejitters.net\/blog\/thebigcandme\/\" data-orig-file=\"https:\/\/i0.wp.com\/coffeejitters.net\/blog\/wp-content\/uploads\/2013\/07\/theBigCandMe.jpg?fit=1774%2C1774\" data-orig-size=\"1774,1774\" data-comments-opened=\"1\" 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