A Hanukkah Story

A Hanukkah Story

On a street where every other house was illuminated with Christmas decorations, 5 year old Isaac Schnitzer placed a menorah in his bedroom window.  It wasn’t long before a cinder block crashed through the window and landed on Isaac’s bed.  The year was 1993 and the town was Billings, Montana.  But this is not a story about Isaac Schnitzer, in fact, Isaac was just one of many individuals who was targeted by the hate groups that had moved into town.  And it is not a story about the evils of bigotry, although that’s certainly an element.  This is a story about a town that stood together, and raised it’s voice together, to say “not in our town!”

In fact, five days after the incident, a local sporting goods store put that very message on it’s billboard: “Not in our town! No hate. No violence. Peace on earth.”  The local painter’s union volunteered to repaint houses and buildings marred by vandalism. Thousands attended peace vigils, and local organizations passed resolutions condemning hate activities.

The Billings Gazette published a full page print of a menorah – and it is estimated that 10,000 people cut out the picture and taped it to their window. Some even purchased their own menorah to display in the window.

Did Billings have a large Jewish population?  No.  In fact, this city of 80,000 was home to only about 100 Jewish families.  And 10,000 showed a menorah in their window that holiday season in 1993.

Did this activity bring an end to bigotry?  Of course not.  As we’ve seen in this past election season, and as I’ve reported before in this blog, hate and bigotry are alive and well in this country.  But so are integrity, and hope, and resilience, and compassion.

Bigots view silence as acceptance.  This is why I speak up. The only way to truly counter bigotry is to speak truth to the lies and stand together, as the town of Billings did, and say hate is not welcome here. Every time people silence themselves in the face of bigotry and hate, it grows stronger.

In the years since this event, the menorah has become a custom in Billings;  a testament to the power of standing up against hate.  When people think of the holiday season in Billings, they don’t think of the cinder block, or the swastikas painted on houses, or the defacement of cemeteries; they think of hope, and place a menorah in the window.

I’ve never celebrated Hanukkah before, but today I’d like to take a moment to say Happy Hanukkah to Billings. Montana.  And Happy Hanukkah to the rest of you too.

Peace, Joy and Hope.

The Ornament

The Ornament

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Every year for Christmas, my husband and I pick out a Christmas ornament together.  We’ve been doing this since before we got married, and it’s become a cherished part of our Christmas tradition.

We try to choose something that is representative of our year together, or at least an occasion during the year.  And we try to find something that is not too fragile.  There have been years, and this might be another one, where this ornament consumes the entirety of our minuscule Christmas budget.  But even when money is tight we still find a way to make the holiday special and memorable.

The ornament above was from my birthday last year, and commemorates a trip when Aaron took my mom and I on a cruise out to Blake Island for a Native American feast and dance.  We’re still on the lookout for the perfect ornament for this year.  Perhaps something baby oriented?  We’ll see…

We plan to continue this tradition with the baby as well, buying her an ornament each year that memorializes an event and the year.  Then, when she’s grown and ready to go off on her own, she will already have a starter set of Christmas ornaments.

Thanksgiving with the In-Laws

Thanksgiving with the In-Laws

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We had an awesome Thanksgiving this year.  We spent the holiday with Aaron’s family so it was very low key and relaxed.  And the food was awesome. This was the first time we had seen  Aaron’s family since I became pregnant, so my belly was the center of attention – first baby on this side of the family.

It was a good day.

A holiday conversation

Mr. H: But I’ve always wanted a light sabre.  I was sure Santa would bring me one, but he never did.

Me: Don’t worry sweety, I’m sure one of these days “Santa” will bring a light sabre for your daughter; you can play with that one.

Mr. H:  Can I get away with that?  …       You’re gonna put this in your blog aren’t you?

Me: yup

Giving Thanks

Giving Thanks

  1. my husband
  2. we’re finally pregnant
  3. the fact that we’ve somehow managed to keep a roof over our heads while we’re both full time students
  4. the ability and inclination to think, research and reason
  5. the fact that I finally finished my paper and got it submitted online just before the midnight deadline tonight – whew!
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  7. President Elect Obama
  8. family
  9. Seattle – I really, really love this city
  10. the internet.  the internet has created so many opportunities for me

What are you thankful for?