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		<title>Remembering Dad</title>
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		<pubDate>Mon, 30 May 2011 18:12:34 +0000</pubDate>
		<dc:creator>Judy Schwartz Haley</dc:creator>
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		<description><![CDATA[<p>I&#8217;ve spent the past month helping Mom move out of her apartment. Through that process I&#8217;ve been taking a moment to scan photographs before packing the pictures to ship.  OK, I&#8217;ve been taking a little more than a moment to preserve the photos, but it&#8217;s well worth the time investment. I love having these photos [...]]]></description>
			<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>I&#8217;ve spent the past month helping Mom move out of her apartment. Through that process I&#8217;ve been taking a moment to scan photographs before packing the pictures to ship.  OK, I&#8217;ve been taking a little more than a moment to preserve the photos, but it&#8217;s well worth the time investment. I love having these photos digitized, and accessible to the family on Flickr.</p>
<p><a title="dad075 by schwartzkids, on Flickr" href="http://www.flickr.com/photos/schwartzkids/5713837417/"><img src="http://farm4.static.flickr.com/3138/5713837417_5df8f109f7_z.jpg" alt="dad075" width="516" height="640" /></a></p>
<p>I made a point of setting aside these photos of my dad from his tour of duty in Vietnam in 1968-69, so I could put them up for today&#8217;s post.</p>
<p><a title="HHS7-10-4 107 by coffeejitters, on Flickr" href="http://www.flickr.com/photos/coffeejitters/3887502310/"><img src="http://farm4.static.flickr.com/3467/3887502310_5290b17965_z.jpg" alt="HHS7-10-4 107" width="640" height="418" /></a></p>
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<p><a title="dad137 by schwartzkids, on Flickr" href="http://www.flickr.com/photos/schwartzkids/5736072504/"><img class="alignleft" src="http://farm3.static.flickr.com/2024/5736072504_7251b883e6_z.jpg" alt="dad137" width="451" height="640" /></a><a title="HHS7-10-4 112 by coffeejitters, on Flickr" href="http://www.flickr.com/photos/coffeejitters/3887502454/"></a></p>
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<p>Thank you Dad, and Grandad, Aaron, Alex, David, and everyone else that served.</p>
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		<title>The Brute Squad</title>
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		<pubDate>Thu, 19 May 2011 05:55:13 +0000</pubDate>
		<dc:creator>Judy Schwartz Haley</dc:creator>
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		<description><![CDATA[<p>Shortly after we were engaged, Aaron and I went to dinner with some friends. We got to talking about my family, so I pulled this picture of my dad and brothers from my wallet.  Lars looked at the picture a moment, then set it down on the table while backing away a bit.</p> <p>He turned [...]]]></description>
			<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>Shortly after we were engaged, Aaron and I went to dinner with some friends. We got to talking about my family, so I pulled this picture of my dad and brothers from my wallet.  Lars looked at the picture a moment, then set it down on the table while backing away a bit.</p>
<p>He turned to my husband and said, &#8220;Dude, whatever you do, don&#8217;t piss her off.&#8221;</p>
<p><a title="brutesquad068 by schwartzkids, on Flickr" href="http://www.flickr.com/photos/schwartzkids/5713835091/"><img src="http://farm3.static.flickr.com/2613/5713835091_052fcd4a7e_z.jpg" alt="brutesquad068" width="446" height="640" /></a></p>
<p>So far, so good.</p>
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		<title>The Last Frontier, 1947 Alaska</title>
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		<pubDate>Mon, 21 Feb 2011 19:19:41 +0000</pubDate>
		<dc:creator>Judy Schwartz Haley</dc:creator>
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		<description><![CDATA[<p>When my Grandparents moved to Alaska in the 1940s, it was still very much a frontier. It was both the wild, wild west, and the frigid north.</p> <p>Grandma took notes. By compiling and transcribing her notes, and sharing them on my blog, I&#8217;m fulfilling a promise to her to make these stories available and accessible to [...]]]></description>
			<content:encoded><![CDATA[<blockquote><p>When my Grandparents moved to Alaska in the 1940s, it was still very much a frontier. It was both the wild, wild west, and the frigid north.</p>
<p>Grandma took notes. By compiling and transcribing her notes, and sharing them on my blog, I&#8217;m fulfilling a promise to her to make these stories available and accessible to the rest of the family. I have created an archive to which I am slowly transcribing and adding these documents: <a title="McKinley Family Archives" href="http://coffeejitters.net/blog/mckinley-family/" target="_blank">McKinley Family Archives</a>.</p>
<p>I&#8217;ve left these stories exactly as she wrote them, although I have been hunting down photos for illustration.</p>
<p>Here she is again, Doris McKinley, in her own words.</p>
<p>enjoy.</p></blockquote>
<div class="wp-caption alignright" style="width: 406px"><a title="steve karen and rodger by coffeejitters, on Flickr" href="http://www.flickr.com/photos/coffeejitters/5344735640/"><img title="Alaska: Steve, Karen, and Rodger" src="http://farm6.static.flickr.com/5282/5344735640_f9c2b23752_o.jpg" alt="steve karen and rodger" width="396" height="370" /></a><p class="wp-caption-text">Steve, Karen, and Rodger with the family plane</p></div>
<p>Anchorage, a thriving business community, is the nerve center of western Alaska. In 1939 it had a population of 3000, now with the post-war influx, it boasts of nearly 15,000 &#8211; causing a serious housing shortage. Building in all classes is progress, but far too short of its needs.</p>
<p>Ft. Richardson, located only five miles from Anchorage is a combined Military, Naval, and Air Command with a personnel of about 12,000. The United States Government is pouring tremendous sums of money into the development of Ft. Richardson as the permanent headquarters of all Alaska Defenses.</p>
<p>Thus, there are some 25,000 local people served by Anchorage business. This is exclusive of the &#8220;bush.&#8221; The term &#8220;bush&#8221; is used to identify outlying terretory. &#8220;Bush pilots&#8221; are very efficient airmen, piloting their own planes. Their business consists of scheduled and unscheduled hops to almost any point within a radius of 400 to 500 miles. Residents of these remote localities, traders, trappers, and miners rely on the bush pilot and his light plane as readily as persons in the States use the bus or train. For in all Alaska there are only about 2000 miles of automobile roads.</p>
<p>The Alaskan economy is dependent on the various phases of aviation.</p>
<p>One day we saw a shy native boy carrying a baby seal. Walking along the street, he was drawing considerable attention. He had found the seal on the shore, it apparently had become lost from its mother. It lay quite content and quietly in the boy&#8217;s arms. The face seemed much like a dog&#8217;s, tho larger, with a rather pointed nose. The heavy brown body and flippers were interesting.</p>
<p>When my Father was in Anchorage last March, he saw several native Indian women carrying babies on their backs. As he was talking with one, he noticed severe sores along the baby&#8217;s jaw. Inquiring of the Mother what caused the sore, she replied, &#8220;Just rubbing.&#8221;</p>
<p>On a motor trip to Valdez, a distance of 300 miles by highway, which I am sure is not more than 75 by air, we saw a fish wheel in operation. This wheel was similar to a conventional water wheel, excep that each peddle had a wire screen which built up the side and end. The inside was left open so that as the river current turned the wheel, a fish was caught and held until that section reached the top and the fish dropped out onto a slide thence into a tank of water. The native then picked up the fish, split and cleaned it, then hung it by the tail on a nail with rows of other fish. Drying frames were built in a square and a fire smoldered in the center. Smoked, dried fish are a staple diet of the seld dogs and natives in winter. The use of these wheels are limited to the native population.</p>
<p>Salmon fishing is most popular and during the season it is very common to see men, women or children on the streets with their fishing tackle going to Fish Creek near the Railroad. One day an old-time showed us the procedure. We bought stought fish line, heavy sinkers and large three pronged hooks. The idea is to throw the hook into the stream and jerk it back. Really, we snag salmon as they do not bite. Some time passed and we had no luck, our friend insisted, however, that the salmon would be at that spot about 15 minutes after the tide came in. Shortly afterward a little boy, possibly 8 years old said, &#8220;If you&#8217;ll throw your hook right over there, Doc, you&#8217;ll catch a fish!&#8221; Sure enough, Lee brought in a nice four or five pound salmon, and brought in several more in a short time.</p>
<div class="wp-caption alignleft" style="width: 435px"><a title="McKinley log home by coffeejitters, on Flickr" href="http://www.flickr.com/photos/coffeejitters/5345967834/"><img title="McKinley Alaska log home" src="http://farm6.static.flickr.com/5081/5345967834_864512edcd_o.jpg" alt="McKinley log home" width="425" height="385" /></a><p class="wp-caption-text">McKinley Family log home</p></div>
<p>The youngster caught two, pulled them onto the shore, but before he could get a good hold on them they flopped back into the water. He went on fishing as tho nothing had happened. When we were ready to leave, he handed two other fish to my husband, saying &#8220;Here, Doc, you take these. My mother wont let me bring any more fish home!&#8221; Lee skinned and filleted them, and we cooked in a friend&#8217;s kitchen that evening. They were truly delicious.</p>
<p>These were the silver salmon and were about 18&#8243; long, later in July the big king salmon appear which may weigh 10, 15, or 20 pounds.</p>
<p>The famed Matanuska Valley farming project which was publicized a few years ago is located about 50 miles from Anchorage on the only highway which joins Fairbanks and Anchorage. The project is managed on a cooperative basis, is successful, and is developing into a real asset to Alaska. These farms, many only ten or fifteen years removed from the wilderness, are remarkably fertile. Farmers are farm owners as tenent farming is frowned upon. The valley produces vegetables of unusual size due to the very long days during the growing season. Dairying is being rather slowly developed because of the difficulties of carrying the herds thru the long winters. Farm buildings, built with Government assistance follow identical plans and are built of logs. Most farm work is, however, carried on with tractors and modern machinery.</p>
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		<title>How a scary looking kid helped me get my head screwed on straight</title>
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		<pubDate>Sun, 13 Feb 2011 00:31:41 +0000</pubDate>
		<dc:creator>Judy Schwartz Haley</dc:creator>
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		<description><![CDATA[The first night I met him, he glared at me then leaned back a ways before slamming his head down on to the table. That thud of skull connecting with wood was so hard it made the walls shake and the windows rattle. I choked a bit on my heart, and my stomach churned with that nauseous fear that comes when everything is wrong. Very, very wrong. What were we doing with this kid in our home? [...]]]></description>
			<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>The first night I met him, he glared at me then leaned back a ways before slamming his head down on to the table. That thud of skull connecting with wood was so hard it made the walls shake and the windows rattle. I choked a bit on my heart, and my stomach churned with that nauseous fear that comes when everything is wrong. Very, very wrong.  What were we doing with this kid in our home?</p>
<p><a href="http://coffeejitters.net/blog/wp-content/uploads/2011/02/Matt122.jpg"><img class="alignleft size-medium wp-image-2681" title="Matt122" src="http://coffeejitters.net/blog/wp-content/uploads/2011/02/Matt122-300x347.jpg" alt="" width="300" height="347" /></a> To say I wasn’t thrilled about my mom’s decision to take in foster kids was an understatement. That she was specifically interested in taking developmentally challenged kids, made it worse.  This was a bad idea. I was sure of it.</p>
<p>Matt’s case manager told mom that he was a “head banger.” Those two little words were inadequate to describe the frequency and force with which his head made contact with any nearby hard surface.</p>
<p>He was difficult to look at. His brain had not developed properly, and he was born with cerebral palsy and hydrocephalus.  His hair grew in funny little tufts around the patchwork of scars on his head. His face was scarred, and frequently bloody from the head banging. He couldn&#8217;t stand up straight, and could barely walk.</p>
<p>And he was angry. Mad. Furious at the world. And with good cause.</p>
<p>It was Matt&#8217;s story specifically that finalized my Mom&#8217;s decision to become a foster parent.  At the time she first heard about him, he had been living in a motel for 3 months, hired care givers taking shifts sitting with him in that room, because they could not find a home that would take him. He had been through more than 15 homes in his 16 years of life. He had been abused. He had extensive medical needs, that required a great deal of work to manage. And developmentally he was a two year old, still a baby.</p>
<p>He didn&#8217;t know what was going on; he just knew that most people were mean, and no one could be trusted.</p>
<p>It was a long period of adjustment: him getting used to our large boisterous family, and us getting used to this new person in our midst with so many new needs (like needing help with toileting, among other things), and of course, that head banging.</p>
<p>But one day we discovered something.  If you put your hand on the table, or wall, or whatever else was the target of his swiftly moving head, he would stop mid-swing. He would bang his head, he would hit things, he would break things, but he would not hit us.</p>
<p>That discovery started a little shift.  For one thing, it helped us significantly cut down on the head banging by just putting a hand in the way. But it also started to change the way we saw him: self-destructive, yes, but not violent towards others.</p>
<p>He got easier to look at over time as well.  Eventually, we started to see past all the scars, and notice other things, like that mischievous twinkle in his eye.</p>
<p><a href="http://coffeejitters.net/blog/wp-content/uploads/2011/02/matt-1.jpg"><img class="alignnone size-full wp-image-2682" title="matt 1" src="http://coffeejitters.net/blog/wp-content/uploads/2011/02/matt-1.jpg" alt="" width="640" /></a></p>
<p>Matt was a little prankster, especially once he got comfortable with us.  He was funny. He&#8217;d blame his farts on you. He&#8217;d pull your chair out as you were trying to sit down. If he was done with you, he&#8217;d dismiss you: &#8220;Bye!&#8221;</p>
<p>And he was gentle, so very gentle, especially with babies.</p>
<p>The obvious lesson here is about not judging the book by the cover, or the person by how they look.  But there&#8217;s more.  It wasn&#8217;t just the way Matt looked that was scary at first. It was his behavior that terrified us. Matt also taught us a lesson in looking past the angry in others &#8211; that the attitude is likely a hard-earned, self-protective shell, and not necessarily indicative of what&#8217;s inside.  Its a difficult lesson, and one I forget frequently.  But I&#8217;m still trying.</p>
<p>Over the years, Matt went through dozens of procedures and surgeries.  His hydrocephalus was managed by a shunt that drained the excess fluid from his brain. That shunt frequently had issues, perhaps caused by the head-banging, but that pressure may have also been the cause of the the head banging &#8211; the pressure caused a great deal of pain, that bang momentarily equalizing the pressure.</p>
<p>He actually became quite popular, at school, at church, in the community. He passed away from complications of surgery when he was 24.  He was still a toddler developmentally, but he was a happy toddler. When he died he was surrounded by his family, foster family perhaps, but family still. And he knew he was loved. His funeral was standing room only; the community had learned to love him as well.</p>
<p>It has been 11 years since his death, today would have been his 35th birthday. I still think of him often.  He taught us so much about accepting others, and about resilience and redemption. I&#8217;m still learning that lesson about forgiving and understanding the angry.</p>
<p>See also: <a title="My Mother's Gift" href="http://coffeejitters.net/blog/2008/05/my-mothers-gift/" target="_self">My Mother&#8217;s Gift</a> for more on this story.</p>
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		<title>Socialite to Pioneer in 3500 Miles</title>
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		<pubDate>Wed, 12 Jan 2011 02:17:16 +0000</pubDate>
		<dc:creator>Judy Schwartz Haley</dc:creator>
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		<description><![CDATA[<p>My grandmother was born 1/11/11 &#8211; 1911, that is &#8211; one hundred years ago today. She didn&#8217;t live to meet that milestone, she passed away just a few months ago. But in those just shy of 100 years, she led a remarkable life. </p> <p>I wanted to write a biographical blog post to tell her [...]]]></description>
			<content:encoded><![CDATA[<blockquote><p><em>My grandmother was born 1/11/11 &#8211; 1911, that is &#8211; one hundred years ago  today. She didn&#8217;t live to meet that milestone, she passed away just a  few months ago. But in those just shy of 100 years, she led a remarkable  life. </em></p>
<p><em>I wanted to write a biographical blog post to tell her story today, but it&#8217;s too much.  She went from being very active in Detroit&#8217;s social scene, to being a pioneer in a (then) remote area of  Alaska, active in Territorial, and later, State politics as the wife of a  politician, and even running for State Legislature herself  &#8211; all this  was done while running an active farm, raising her seven children, and  managing the office of my Grandfather&#8217;s dental practice, as well as the  family&#8217;s Medical/Dental Supply business.  That deserves more than one blog post.</em></p>
<p><em>Instead, I&#8217;ll use her 100th birthday to kick off the first of a series of posts about my Grandmother.  In this first one, I&#8217;ll let her tell her own story of her first trip to Alaska.  A few years ago, she let me copy some of her personal papers with the idea that I would post them online, making them available to the rest of the family.  It&#8217;s taken me until now to do anything about that.<br />
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<p><em>So here she is, Doris McKinley in her own words. I just added a title and a couple photos. It&#8217;s a long post, so grab a cup of coffee, kick your feet up, and settle in for a story of the rugged North.<br />
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<p>The Alaska Highway is an overland route connecting the United States  with Alaska through Canada. During the summer and early Winter of 1942,  United States Army Engineers blazed the original road through 1,523  miles of unbroken wilderness. They put over a project of road building  in eight months never duplicated in history, and considered by experts  impossible in less than two years.</p>
<p>Their record is as glorious as that of any combat unit fighting on  the front, for here, too, men suffered and died in a battle of the  wilderness so that America might be made safe. These men endured mud,  rain, fought hordes of voracious mosquitoes, and lived at times on  subsistence rations with the constant threat that their precarious  supply lines might be broken and they would be isolated in the  wilderness.</p>
<p>On their heels or sometimes in step with them, came the United States  Public Roads Administration with its civilian contractors and road  workers, using the Army road as a base and making it into a highway as  fast as they could. During the next summer the road was made into a  permanent wilderness gravel highway, wide enough for two or three  vehicles to pass with ease.</p>
<p>The present route was selected from the point of view of military  strategy, intended mainly to serve as a link between various airports  strung northward across Western Canada to Alaska. A tourist route would  have been laid closer to the Canadian Rockies.</p>
<p>It stands as a symbol of friendship between nations unparalleled in  history. The name Alcan, an unofficial designation, was subsequently  changed to Alaska Highway by agreement of the two governments. It starts  at Dawson Creek, British Columbia, a village at the end of the Railroad  line 300 miles northwest of Edmonton, Alberta, and terminates at  Fairbanks, Alaska, a distance of 1,523 miles.</p>
<div class="wp-caption alignright" style="width: 390px"><a title="lee and doris in 1948 by coffeejitters, on Flickr" href="http://www.flickr.com/photos/coffeejitters/5344730432/"><img class=" " title="lee and doris in 1948" src="http://farm6.static.flickr.com/5047/5344730432_eeeb0df650.jpg" alt="lee and doris in 1948" width="380" height="500" /></a><p class="wp-caption-text">Doris and Doc (Lee) McKinley</p></div>
<p>My husband, Lee, made this trip to Anchorage in October with our 12  year old son, Blake, and Frederick York, a young laboratory technician.  They drove a Hudson pickup truck and expected to be able to have certain  heavy supplies shipped by boat from Seattle. However, shortly after  they arrived there, it became apparent that the West Coast Shipping  Strike would not end soon. So, three weeks later, Lee took a plane to  Seattle and then East to Detroit. He was most enthusiastic in his first  impressions of Alaska and insisted that I drive back with him.</p>
<p>I hurriedly collected clothing for Arctic wear. At Peter&#8217;s Sportswear  Clothes Shop I found a down-filled jacket, parka and leggings, and  fleece lined gloves and stadium boots. The leggings were most  comfortable which I wore in place of slacks. They are cool enough in the  heated cab of the truck and warm at 40 degrees below zero.</p>
<p>This time we drove a Dodge one-ton express truck. Our neighborhood  garage men had put forth great effort to hurriedly build a strong frame  of 1&#8243; pipe over the truck  bed. This was covered with large tarpaulin  and tied securely. On the running board we carried four, five gallon  army gasoline cans, and acetylene torch and new axe.</p>
<p>We left home at 9:30 A.M. Monday, November 18, 1946. Our route was  Highway 12 to Chicago. Then Minneapolis and the fourth day we arrived in  Fargo, North Dakota. We enjoyed three perfect Autumn days, cool and  bright, then ran into sleet and snow.  In Fargo, we placed the truck in a  garage where booster springs, airplane tires and fire extinguisher were  installed the following day. We now felt we were properly equipped.</p>
<p>Leaving Fargo Saturday morning on our way to Montana, we drove  through the wheat prairies with their great elevators in every village.  At the Immigration Center in Coutts, Alberta, we spent two hours making  arrangements to travel through Canada. Stopped overnight in Calgary, and  arrived in Edmonton Tuesday afternoon, November 26th.</p>
<p>Our instructions at the border had been to see Mr. Eveleigh of the  Control Board at Edmonton. He looked over our credentials and checked  our list of extra supplies &#8211; tire irons, jack, air pump, extra tires and  tubes, patching supplies, flashlight and extra batteries, extra  electric wire and friction tape, fan belts and spark plugs, extra  gasoline and oil containers, general repair tools tow chain and numerous  other articles.</p>
<p>I was eager to see the shops in Edmonton so took a few minutes while  Lee was having the truck serviced. I was certainly surprised to find  that stocks of warm winter clothing were as meager at Hudson&#8217;s Bay  Company as they were here. The stores generally are fine, modern  buildings with good merchandise.</p>
<p>It was 4:30 when we slid past the outskirts of Edmonton and into the  prairie Northland. We were on concrete until we passed the airports  several miles out, where the road became black-top. Then this, too,  ended and we settled down to a straight-away grind over typical Canadian  prairie road. This was not the endless wheat-field prairie we had  traversed south of Edmonton. We were now headed into the flat, bush  country of the <span id="more-2549"></span>North. For the most part it consisted of miles of spruce,  aspen, birch or willow &#8211; low woods country, broken occasionally by farm  clearings niched into the wilderness. The deep silence of the north  spread about us.</p>
<p>One of our tires began to soften but we made it to a hotel in the  small village of Colinton. The lobby was a typical small town loafing  place but the upstairs rooms were clean and warm, however there was no  running water.  All lavatory facilities are scarce and most hotel  stairways bear a sight, &#8220;Lavatory for use of Room Guests Only.&#8221; They  open the door as a special favor and not as a general accommodation.</p>
<p>We left Colinton before daylight the next morning at 7:00 A.M. and  drove eight miles to the charming town of Athabaska with a population of  several thousand. We ate at a Chinese restaurant an excellent breakfast  &#8211; 1/2 grapefruit, 3 boiled eggs, bacon, well-buttered toast, coffee and  jam. Such meals became a habit and I&#8217;m sure I gained several pounds.</p>
<p>Shortly afterward we saw a beautiful eight-point elk, grazing by the road in a clearing. He quickly bounded back into the woods.</p>
<p>In the afternoon, we were much interested in the conveyances these  people had rigged up for transporting the school children. One was a  well scaled, small cabin, with windows and door, set on bob-sleds and  drawn by a horse. Smoke was issuing from the chimney. The children  seemed to be thoroughly enjoying the ride and we took pictures of them.</p>
<p>We lunched the next day in a crowded hotel dining room in the village  of High Prairie. As we left, we did not take the main road to Dawson  Creek through the town of Grand Prairie. Instead, we were advised at the  Control Board to take the shorter route cross country.  It was a lonely  road where we seldom passed a farm or vehicle. For the most part, we  drove straight as a die through long stretches of unbroken forest. The  roads were not too bad at this season, because they were frozen and  covered with a few inches of snow, but as they are mostly dirt, they may  become impassable during prolonged rains.</p>
<p>We welcome a break in the flat landscape when, late in the afternoon  we descended into the valley of Smokey River. Beside the road a man was  working underneath a car. We stopped, as one truck never passes another  without inquiring into the nature of the trouble and offering aid. It is  the rule of the road. Lee suggested that probably there was water  frozen in the gas line. The couple had been there three hours and his  young wife was very cold. We moved boxes, boots, fruit and cookies and  made room for her to ride into the next town with us and we promised to  order a wrecker. The three of us drove on and enjoyed and excellent  dinner in the hotel.</p>
<p>Through the swinging kitchen door we could catch glimpses of the big  family in the kitchen. There appeared to be several generations from  great-grandfather to a young baby, about a dozen in all. Inasmuch as we  were eating a little early and were alone in the dining-room we were the  object of much giggling and snickering. The girls were constantly  eyeing us through the peek window. Meanwhile our young guest told us  that her family were tractor farmers living near Grand Prairie. Her  husband and four brothers work over 2,000 acres in wheat. They have no  stock. During peak seasons she drives a tractor, but does not enjoy it.  They were on a few days holiday to see Dawson Creek. As we were leaving  the dining room the husband walked in. He had followed Lee&#8217;s suggestion,  found and repaired the frozen fuel line and to our consternation had  missed the wrecker!!</p>
<p>As we descended the steep train to the ice covered Smokey River, we  met an old Army truck. Two very young boys had driven down from  Fairbanks on their way home to Seattle. They said the road was &#8220;rugged&#8221;  especially from Dawson Creek, and we warned them of a very steep grade  they would descend which was not at all marked. As we left they shouted,  &#8220;Seattle, or Bust.&#8221;</p>
<p>The public ferry at Smokey River was tied up for the season and Mr.  Eveleigh at Edmonton assured us that the ice was safe for a ten-ton  truck. Nevertheless with some misgiving we prepared to drive across. I  decided to walk. We were sure that if the truck made a successful  crossing it would be safe enough for me. On reaching the other shore we  looked back and saw, not too far away, water lapping against the ice. We  were most thankful to have this part of our journey behind us. This is  the only winter crossing.</p>
<p>In Canada many farmers use bob-sleds for transportation. The drainage  ditches are their private drives in winter. At one crossroad three  sleds met and we were amused at the traffic congestion, and the sign,  &#8220;Caution, Horse-drawn Traffic.&#8221;</p>
<p>Along the shore of Lesser Slave Lake extends an area of perhaps ten  miles that boasts one of the largest concentrations of mink farms in the  world. Over a million dollars worth of pelts are marketed each year  from this region. On farmer showed us his farm. Conditions for raising  mink are ideal, he said. Fish, their principal food, are easily seined  from the lake. They are chopped up and fed with meal to these little  animals. Their small pens of chicken wire stand off the ground and  Campbell&#8217;s soup cans nailed to the back walls serve as a watering  fountain. Only breeders are fed  over the winter as Spring born mink are  pelted in the late fall and sold on the open market.</p>
<p>After two days of solitude and silence, it was a thrill to see the  lights of Dawson Creek. While the road was under construction, Dawson  Creek mushroomed into a bustling town, but now the place has taken on  the semblance of a modern community of several thousand population and a  military post of some size. It is not marked by the vice and vulgarity  often found in boom towns. Civil and military authorities kept things in  hand from the beginning. In this way Dawson Creek grew rapidly but  decently in order to function as a feeder for America&#8217;s northern life  line.</p>
<p>We left the next morning after receiving our pass. We were off at last on the great Alaska Highway!</p>
<p>The road was straight and at least 50 feet wide. We drove at our  speed limit of 35 miles an hour, enjoying the motion over its smooth  surface after having pounded 50 miles over rough dirt road. Our maps  showed us that we had passed the 55th parallel, which is farther north  than the Aleutian Islands. We were now opposite Siberia and about 1,700  miles from Anchorage, which was our ultimate destination.</p>
<p>A small monument placed in the center of the main intersection at  Dawson Creek is marked &#8220;0&#8243; Zero mile. Each mile thereafter all the way  to Fairbanks is posted with the number of miles distant from this  marker. A place is referred to on the Highway as at 531, meaning  five-hundred-thirty-one miles from Dawson Creek.</p>
<p>At thirty we came to the Great Peace River, half a mile wide.  Spanning it was a suspension bridge which was a truly magnificent  structure. As we looked at the long, gray steel and concrete  achievement, we thought it a fine monument to Canadian and American  cooperation and goodwill. Until this bridge was completed the Peace  River had been the greatest single obstacle to the northern migration.</p>
<p>Our first stop was a Blueberry Royal Canadian Mounted Police Post. We  registered and a check was made of the essential supplies ordered in  Edmonton. Had any been missing it would have been necessary to turn back  100 miles to Dawson Creek. The lunch room was a log gasoline station  and living quarters. Three police officers were eating pork chops at the  counter.</p>
<p>There we met a family of four waiting to eat. They had come down from  Fairbanks and were returning to Seattle in their truck on which a cabin  had been built. This is the only practical way to move a family over  this highway.</p>
<p>At 191 we stopped for gasoline and were informed that dinner was  ready. We entered a very nice lunch room. The high backed benches were  covered with red leather and the tables with plastic. It was run by two  white haired ladies, one very sweet motherly person and the other a bit  more sophisticated. The latter was wearing a sequin cap and a black  dress suit. She nervously darted from the window as she tried to serve  us, fearful that he had been forgotten. The driver of an oil tanker, who  was to take her to an airport where she could get a plane to Skagway  and Seattle, had not come when we left.</p>
<p>Our waitress told us that sometimes they get water from a spring 22  miles away. In this country they never serve a glass of water, but after  taking the order immediately bring coffee and fill the cup as often as  it empties. They served a good dinner of sausages, boiled potatoes,  frozen peas, prunes and cake and delicious bread from the Dawson Creek  bakery.</p>
<p>Much of our driving was done in the dark. Near Edmonton darkness  closed in about five o&#8217;clock and as we traveled North it came  progressively earlier. It was dark when we started again. About four  miles out of Ft. Nelson, a large Army Camp, we discovered a low tire.  Drove on in and found a man who was willing to fix it, however he was  constantly heckled by a young soldier and the result was, we found  later, the patch went onto the tube but not over the hole!</p>
<p>It was Thanksgiving Day, so having time on our hands, we ate again,  good lamb chops and bad coffee. We were advised they had no room for us  to sleep. The next stop, Summit Lake, was 92 miles away. Although we  were very tired, there was nothing to do except drive on!</p>
<p>Doors are never locked in this country so upon arrival at Summit  Lake, Lee walked into the gasoline station. He found six cots in the  bunkroom occupied but said, &#8220;We are going to sleep anyway.&#8221; Bedrolls  were unpacked and laid on the greasy floor between a rack of Mobil oil  cans and the lunch counter. We took off our coats and shoes as quietly  as possible, slipped into our sleeping bags and rested quite well. Next  morning the proprietor did not seem surprised at seeing us, but had not  heard us come in.  Later his wife and daughter served a good breakfast.  Before we left I asked if I might have water to wash my hands. She  hesitated then said, &#8220;Well, yes&#8221; and produced and aluminum wash basin  with warm water. I thoroughly appreciated the luxury. Lee was not so  lucky. Summit Lake is at an elevation of 4,250 ft. It is surprising to  know that the route never reaches a higher altitude although it crosses  the continental divide.</p>
<p>After leaving Muncho Lake going North, the scenery was magnificent.  The Highway ran for miles along the lake whose rocky shores had been  blasted in order to provide a road bed. The lake is so deep, more than  100 feet right at the shore &#8211; that filling was impossible.  At the time  we were not aware of its great depth. I doubt if we could have been more  careful, but we could have been more worried.</p>
<p>As we neared the Yukon border, we came to a Hudson&#8217;s Bay Company fur  trading post. It was a typical small general store. We ate a good supper  at the post where we were served by a young, neatly dressed Indian  girl. Noticing several new school books, I inquired about them and  learned she was doing her schoolwork by correspondence. At the counter  sat a trapper and our cook was jokingly begging a ride on his dogsled.  Meanwhile, an attractive, well-groomed young woman came in with two  boys, perhaps seven and nine. They wore well cut clothes of good  quality, hair was nicely cut and combed. It was difficult to fit them  into the community, but later we decided she must be the manager of a  new fifty room hotel which is near completion.</p>
<p>The evening drive to Rancheria was rather uneventful, just more snowy  landscape and ice covered road. We never ceased to be grateful for the  splendid clinging power of our airplane tires. Of course we drove very  slowly and hundreds of miles in second gear. This stopover was operated  by Doris and Bud Simpson. We were greeted by the cheerful Mrs. Simpson.  Yes, she had room for us! She remembered my husband and the boys on the  previous trip. They had been among her very first guests. While we  enjoyed warm sweet rolls and coffee, she told us of her four small  children, seven, five, four, and two years. The oldest boy was taking  second grade by correspondence. I marveled at her ability to care for  her family and serve meals at any time.</p>
<p>The kitchen at the end of the dining room was of comfortable size  housing a large cook stove behind which stood a hundred gallon water  tank &#8211; a luxury in these parts. Here we found a private shower, the  first and only one between Dawson Creek and Anchorage.</p>
<p>Mr. Simpson came in from the power house work shop carrying a desk he had just finished.</p>
<p>We wanted an early start the next morning so that we could stop at  Whitehorse. People along the highway generally do not stir before eight,  but the Simpsons graciously had breakfast for us at 6:00 A.M.</p>
<p>I asked her how it was to live so far from neighbors, and how she  managed her work. She enthusiastically replied, &#8220;I like it, and do enjoy  talking with the travelers. Each morning I bake a batch of pies,  usually put on a large roast and cook a kettle of potatoes with the  jackets on. Then when someone comes in I can prepare a dinner in ten  minutes.&#8221; Mr. Simpson is a wonderful support, when she is extra busy he  comes in and helps with any part of the work. A week before she had cut  her hand and he did all the baking, bread and pies, too.</p>
<p>These people were a real inspiration. The tremendous difficulties  they had to overcome in running such a business two hundred miles from a  source of supplies were amazing. Yet, they kept their fine sense of  balance through it all.</p>
<p>We started in the dark the next morning much refreshed by the good rest, excellent food and hospitable atmosphere at Rancheria.</p>
<p>Much of this road, even in mountain areas, was built over the  dangerous muskeg swamps. Muskeg is flat, undrained land, more or less  swampy and covered with a deep growth of moss of the spagnum variety.  Year after year this moss grows, rots, sinks and decays and other moss  grows on top of it. The swamp often supports a growth of stunted spruce.  It is interesting to consider the terrific difficulties of building a  road over such terrain. Often the original road had to be abandoned  because it became a bottomless morass after army engineers with  bulldozers had scraped off the tundra moss, which would have prevented  the subsoil from thawing the the Spring. As long as the insulating moss  was intact, tractors with wide tracks could travel across the muskeg,  being careful to take a different route each time. Their passage usually  broke the surface of the muskeg and created an impassible morass.</p>
<p>They economized on the gravel fill by first laying down spruce boughs  on top of the muskeg and then dumping gravel over the boughs. The mass  was pushed down until it lay on the solid ice beneath. Thus the spruce  boughs and gravel acted as insulation giving the frost line a chance to  rise and to freeze the top into solid ice. The road needed no surfacing,  then, except ordinary care. Such a road is not built on a swamp, but on  frozen subsoil.</p>
<p>The bridges were a constant source of wonder to us. The larger ones  were fine steel and concrete structures and the smaller ones concrete  culverts. It was surprising to see such strong evidence of our  civilization in so great a wilderness.</p>
<p>We came to a junction of the Normal Wells Road leading off to the  North. This road crosses 570 miles of some of the wildest north country  to the Mackenzie River basin, where a dozen oil wells were already  delivering over 2,000 barrels of oil a day. Oil so pure the Diesel  engines use it without refining. The Norman Wells Road was primarily  built to service a pipe-line which carries crude oil to Whitehorse where  a large refinery has been built. A high-pressure gasoline line runs  along the Alaska Highway in both directions from Whitehorse, which will  eventually bring economical motor fuel to this great region.</p>
<p>Our next stop was Whitehorse, Yukon Territory. In the heyday of the  gold stampede, Whitehorse was second only to Dawson and today bids fair  to become again the crossroads of the Yukon, for trails, railway,  waterway, highway and airways now converge there. The largest airport on  the route to Alaska is located in Whitehorse.</p>
<p>The old part of town still preserves some of its pioneer  picturesqueness, with many of the original log structures still  standing. The main street leads down to the old red painted railway  station, the narrow gauge tracks of which run along the Lewes River. The  population of Whitehorse, once in the hundreds, is now rapidly  expanding into the thousands. Prices have sky-rocketed in spite of  attempted controls.</p>
<p>It was most interesting to see on Lewes River the large side-wheeler  river boats which were tied up. In Summer the boats run down the Lewes  and Yukon Rivers past Dawson and beyond the Arctic Circle, then to the  Tanana River and south to Fairbanks. I am told this is a most  picturesque trip &#8211; the Land of the Midnight Sun.</p>
<p>About 100 miles from Whitehorse, we came to the junction of the  Haines Road, an important lateral of the Alaska Highway leading to the  Port of Haines on the Pacific Ocean. We had discovered another tire with  a slow leak and limped into the Haines Settlement. Their services were  listed as store, meals, gas and oil. It was bitter cold and past meal  time. They were rather unfriendly and did not wish to prepare food and  had no compressed air. We did buy five gallons of gas at 75 cents a  gallon, and then started on for the MacIntosh store six miles away.  Temperature was now 30 degrees below zero.</p>
<p>We knocked at the door of a good looking rather large log house. A  sharp voice from the inside called, &#8220;Come in, Come in and shut the  door.&#8221; We meekly stepped in and saw the back of a woman bending over a  washtub on the floor beside the stove. A baby&#8217;s head peeked around her  black slack-clad legs. When she finally had the baby out of the water  and could turn around, we saw a remarkably agile, white haired woman.  After the baby was ready for bed we inspected the upstairs and found  three cots with wonderfully thick mattresses and plenty of wool  blankets.</p>
<p>Mrs. MacIntosh then bathed the second little girl, a very sweet five  year old, who in a most charming manner accepted her rather biting  reprimands. Mrs. MacIntosh was caring for the children while their  mother was in the Whitehorse hospital. The children&#8217;s parents live on a  Government Experimental Farm and are very poor. Both the children sadly  in need of warm clothing. The baby wore a red sweater over her thin  pajamas because her only wool shirt had to be washed. Mrs. MacIntosh was  distressed that she had wet a couple times that day and had to be put  to bed while her clothes dried.</p>
<p>The little girl was wearing a pair of Mrs. MacIntosh&#8217;s black wool  stockings and they laughed about the heel showing above her shoe-tops. I  am still haunted by their need for warm clothing!</p>
<p>I was surprised to notice the bookcase contained many of the classics  and other good literature until, later, she told me she had taught 25  years in United States schools and colleges.</p>
<p>As she prepared our supper she related her life history. Her husband,  as a young man had acquired this property, 180 acres, while in the  service of the Northwest Mounted Police. Since he died, seven years ago,  she has lived alone doing all her own work. Two years ago she built  this home, by herself, except for the service of a man who put up the  timbers and the roof. There were five rooms and complete bath. The  Winter before she started the house she constructed a match stick model  to scale.</p>
<p>Her kitchen was truly modern with built-in cabinets and a double sink.</p>
<p>She is a United States citizen and when she returned alone to the  Yukon, after her husband&#8217;s death, the Mounted Police were very much  opposed to allowing her to come in, saying it was impossible for a woman  to live alone in this country. She determined to show them in spite of  the fact that her nearest white neighbor then lived in Whitehorse, 120  miles away.</p>
<p>It was very fortunate we carried the acetylene torch for the next  morning our motor would not start until it had been warmed by its  flame.  We have later learned it should have been left running night and  day during extremely cold weather.</p>
<p>The Glenn Highway Cut-off from the Alaska Highway to Anchorage proved  to be a narrow mountain road with very sharp turns and steep grades. We  watched a high wind play on clouds near a mountain across a wide  canyon. We were traveling around this mountain and could see it about  two hours. The wind whipped the cloud until the edges were feathery and  finally we saw two rainbows reflected from two parts of the cloud. The  cloud was midway up the mountain so the mountaintop showed above it.</p>
<p>We were anticipating this stretch of road with some uneasiness as it  is frequently snowed in. We had had satisfactory reports of its  condition at Tok Junction, otherwise we would have driven on the  Fairbanks and shipped the truck by train to Anchorage.</p>
<p>This last stretch must have been built at great speed for one place  the grades were so very steep that we were forced to use second gear in  spite of the fact that the hills were no more than three or four lengths  of the truck. It was like riding a roller coaster.</p>
<p>The sun came up at about 9 o&#8217;clock and we saw it go down over a mountain at 2:02 P.M. Our lights were on at 3 o&#8217;clock.</p>
<p>About 4 o&#8217;clock in the darkness we came to a dilapidated truck,  stalled. A rag had been fastened over a broken window by the driver&#8217;s  seat and the driver, a typical sourdough, was bending over the engine.   When we asked if he needed help he said, &#8220;No, but I wish you would look  in at a fellow 15 miles down the road. He is drunk and has a flat tire.  His motor is running, but if it stops, I&#8217;m afraid he&#8217;ll freeze. I shook  and shook him, but could not wake him. He has 16&#8243; stuff (meaning tires)  and without patches I could not help him anyway.&#8221;</p>
<p>It was snowing and we kept a close lookout for the car which was a  Buick Sedan a young man was driving down from Fairbanks to Anchorage. He  had made the trip without stopping for rest so, when his tire went down  without spare or patches, he fell asleep. We had 16&#8243; wheels on our  truck and while in Fargo had bought the 10 ply airplane tires, so our  original supply was still intact. Lee sold him a tube and helped to  change the tire. The fellow had no flashlight so really needed our  headlights. His gas was low and we supplied him with the contents of one  of our five gallon cans.</p>
<p>As we drove into Palmer, the wind turned into a gale. We stopped at a  shack gas station and bought his last three gallons which proved to be  the last three gallons in Palmer. While Lee was paying the bill a gust  of wind lifted the truck and vibrated it. I jumped out and clinging to  the gas pump made my way into the station. Lee said the truck is a safer  place and took me right back.</p>
<p>A wire across a street had become loosened in the storm. It hung low  enough to be caught by the truck frame. As Lee looked back he saw sparks  fly from the building and the lights go out. We returned and found the  lights were on and all seemed normal.  However, we had had a real  fright.</p>
<p>Later as we stepped outside the lunchroom, I dropped my glove. The  wind whisked it away and I ran after it, but it was gone! My precious  new wool gloves!</p>
<p>Our Fairbanks friend drove up and said he could not buy any gasoline  in town, so we shared our last can with him and we started the last  fifty miles to anchorage. Now we were traveling through the famous  Matanuska Valley farming area but the night was so dark and air so full  of snow that we saw little except road.</p>
<p>The Highway took us through Richardson Field, the Army Air Base 3  miles from Anchorage. It is of tremendous size. We saw the large  hospital and other administration buildings. All were widely separated  as a precautionary measure in time of conflict.</p>
<p>We drove into Anchorage at 11:00 Monday Night. We had been fifteen days from Detroit.</p>
<blockquote><p><em>Note: Once they arrived in Anchorage, they received the urgent message that the family had anxiously been trying to contact them for several days. My mom, Karen, then 2 years old, was in the hospital with pneumonia. Worse yet, the sulpha drugs that had been administered did not clear up her lungs, and she was having an allergic reaction to that medication.  Grandma took the first flight home to take care of her baby.  Mom recovered, of course, and it wasn&#8217;t long before the entire family was moved up to Alaska, but that&#8217;s another adventure for another post. </em></p>
<div class="wp-caption aligncenter" style="width: 423px"><a title="McKinley_Ladies by coffeejitters, on Flickr" href="http://www.flickr.com/photos/coffeejitters/5345356507/"><img title="Doris McKinley with daughters Judy &amp; Karen" src="http://farm6.static.flickr.com/5045/5345356507_1cb25fb9a6_z.jpg" alt="McKinley_Ladies" width="413" height="600" /></a><p class="wp-caption-text">Doris McKinley with daughters Judy &amp; Karen</p></div></blockquote>
<p><a title="McKinley Family" href="http://coffeejitters.net/blog/mckinley-family/" target="_blank">More posts about the McKinley Family.</a></p>
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		<title>New Perspective on Memory</title>
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		<pubDate>Tue, 21 Dec 2010 07:16:28 +0000</pubDate>
		<dc:creator>Judy Schwartz Haley</dc:creator>
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		<description><![CDATA[<p>I was in the back seat, pretending to sleep as we pulled into the driveway late after a long day of shopping. At five, and the oldest in a large family, the odds of Daddy carrying me into the house and up the stairs to my room were pretty slim. But that didn&#8217;t stop me [...]]]></description>
			<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>I was in the back seat, pretending to sleep as we pulled into the driveway late after a long day of shopping. At five, and the oldest in a large family, the odds of Daddy carrying me into the house and up the stairs to my room were pretty slim. But that didn&#8217;t stop me from trying.</p>
<p>Most of the time, he&#8217;d wake me up and send me inside, but every once in a while my little ploy worked.  I&#8217;d rest my head on his shoulder as we ascended the stairs, and ragdoll as he maneuvered me into my jammies.  Then he would tuck me into bed, brush the hair from my face, and plant a kiss on my forehead.  I relished those moments, soaking up the attention.</p>
<p>Parenthood has given me a new perspective on this memory. I wonder how transparent my motives were.  Did he know I was only pretending to sleep, and carry me in anyway?  Did he want to hold me as much as I wanted to be held? As a child, I only thought about how I had to compete with my brothers for attention and affection. It didn&#8217;t occur to me that my parents might crave those cuddles, too.</p>
<p>Today would have been my dad&#8217;s 65th birthday.</p>
<p>I miss you, Dad.</p>
<p><a href="http://www.flickr.com/photos/coffeejitters/169848857/" title="Dad and I on carousel horse by coffeejitters, on Flickr"><img src="http://farm1.static.flickr.com/76/169848857_bd272634e7_z.jpg" width="640" height="452" alt="Dad and I on carousel horse - 1973" /></a></p>
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		<title>Dear Gem &#8211; Month 19</title>
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		<pubDate>Fri, 05 Nov 2010 16:42:45 +0000</pubDate>
		<dc:creator>Judy Schwartz Haley</dc:creator>
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		<description><![CDATA[<p>Your vocabulary is just exploding. It&#8217;s not just one or two new words a day, it&#8217;s several. Big words, like squirrel and butterfly, which is nearly unintelligible, but I know what you&#8217;re saying. You&#8217;re picking up on concepts, too. The other day when we saw the peacock at the zoo, you pointed at it and [...]]]></description>
			<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>Your vocabulary is just exploding. It&#8217;s not just one or two new words a day, it&#8217;s several.  Big words, like squirrel and butterfly, which is nearly unintelligible, but I know what you&#8217;re saying. You&#8217;re picking up on concepts, too.  The other day when we saw the peacock at the zoo, you pointed at it and said &#8220;blue.&#8221;  You just told me &#8220;thank you&#8221; when I gave you some apple slices.  Make a note, I know you know how to say thank you. It&#8217;s de regueur for you now.</p>
<p>This month has been busy. Last weekend we had a memorial service for my grandmother, your Great-Grandma McKinley.  We called her Grandma Candy because your cousins, Max and Ilona, couldn&#8217;t pronounce Grandma McKinley when they were little.  The name stuck.</p>
<p><a href="http://coffeejitters.net/blog/wp-content/uploads/2010/11/028.jpg"><img class="alignnone size-large wp-image-2407" title="Great Grandma McKinley" src="http://coffeejitters.net/blog/wp-content/uploads/2010/11/028-500x375.jpg" alt="Great Grandma McKinley" width="640" /></a></p>
<p>The picture above shows Grandma Candy holding you a few days after you were born.  She hand knit the green blanket on her lap just for you.  She was going blind and her hands were extremely arthritic.  That means completing this blanket was a big challenge, but she didn&#8217;t let her fading eyesight or the pain in her hands stop her from making a blanket for you.  Because she couldn&#8217;t see well, sometimes a mistake would slip through, and then great swathes of the blanket would have to be ripped out and re-knit to get it right, or &#8220;just so.&#8221;  Grandma Candy would say &#8220;just so&#8221; when describing something that had been carefully and thoughtfully arranged. Someday when you are looking at that blanket, you will notice that a few holes and dropped stitches remain. I  hope that someday you will understand how precious that blanket is, and that those dropped stitches are precious too. She loved you very much.</p>
<p>Along with the memorial service, we had a big family reunion.  This was the first time for you to meet most of our extended family: your aunts and uncles and your cousins and second cousins and even third cousins.  There are more degrees of separation in there, but I&#8217;m completely baffled by calculating whether someone is a second cousin once removed.  I finally just settled on calling everyone cousin and left it at that.</p>
<p>You got along well with your cousins and you were charming with everyone. So many people stopped to comment on how sweet you were.  Daddy and I were so proud of you.</p>
<p>Right after the family reunion, it was time for trick or treating.  You were a zebra this year, fitting after all the time we spent at the zoo.  You were a little scared of the costume at first, but once we got it on you, you roared.  That&#8217;s your thing lately, you like to roar.  So I should rephrase.  You were a <em>ferocious</em> zebra this year.</p>
<div id="attachment_2408" class="wp-caption alignnone" style="width: 650px"><a href="http://coffeejitters.net/blog/wp-content/uploads/2010/11/095.jpg"><img class="size-large wp-image-2408" title="baby in ferocious zebra costume" src="http://coffeejitters.net/blog/wp-content/uploads/2010/11/095-500x627.jpg" alt="baby in ferocious zebra costume" width="640" height="803" /></a><p class="wp-caption-text">I am baby, hear me roar</p></div>
<p>You still love to color and draw. It is your favorite way to pass the time.  You lie down on the floor with your feet kicked up, and color for hours on end. I bring crayons and paper with us everywhere we go.</p>
<p><a href="http://coffeejitters.net/blog/wp-content/uploads/2010/11/005.jpg"><img class="alignnone size-large wp-image-2410" title="coloring" src="http://coffeejitters.net/blog/wp-content/uploads/2010/11/005-500x624.jpg" alt="gem drawing in her journal" width="640" /></a></p>
<p>You sit on your green chair with the white polka dots, with your little bare feet sticking out and your toes wiggling while you fill up your journal with pictures like this:</p>
<p><a href="http://www.flickr.com/photos/coffeejitters/5150047886/" title="baby picasso by coffeejitters, on Flickr"><img src="http://farm5.static.flickr.com/4111/5150047886_b21e859d32_b.jpg" width="640" alt="baby picasso" /></a></p>
<p>I love seeing you so happy.  There&#8217;s something about wiggling toes that goes hand in hand with happiness, too.  You can&#8217;t stay in a bad mood and wiggle your toes at the same time.  Try it. I dare you.</p>
<p>I love you so much.</p>
<p>Mommy</p>
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		<title>Wedding Photos</title>
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		<pubDate>Mon, 20 Sep 2010 05:13:19 +0000</pubDate>
		<dc:creator>Judy Schwartz Haley</dc:creator>
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		<description><![CDATA[<p>I&#8217;ve been trying to carve out a little time each day to work on editing the photos from my brother&#8217;s wedding last October. *Hangs head in shame* Yes, I know it&#8217;s been such a long time. Since I got back on the bandwagon, I&#8217;m averaging about one photo a day, which means in the past [...]]]></description>
			<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>I&#8217;ve been trying to carve out a little time each day to work on editing the photos from my brother&#8217;s wedding last October. *Hangs head in shame* Yes, I know it&#8217;s been such a long time.  Since I got back on the bandwagon, I&#8217;m averaging about one photo a day, which means in the past week I edited four. Yeah, I&#8217;m just making all kinds of progress.</p>
<p>I was trying to get a shot of my brother here, but I just love the expression on my sister-in-law&#8217;s face.  It says, &#8220;Hurry up and send me my wedding photos already.&#8221;</p>
<p><a href="http://www.flickr.com/photos/coffeejitters/5006308910/" title="Mel and Tim by coffeejitters, on Flickr"><img src="http://farm5.static.flickr.com/4090/5006308910_9a6ccd0d5d_z.jpg" width="640" height="427" alt="Mel and Tim" /></a></p>
<p>Thanks for being so patient, Mel and Tim.</p>
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		<title>Doris McKinley</title>
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		<pubDate>Fri, 17 Sep 2010 02:32:22 +0000</pubDate>
		<dc:creator>Judy Schwartz Haley</dc:creator>
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		<description><![CDATA[<p>My Grandmother was born in 1911.</p> <p></p> <p></p> <p>Here she is 14 years old</p> <p></p> <p>With my Grandfather shortly after their wedding</p> <p></p> <p>With my mom (the little one) and my aunt</p> <p></p> <p>In the living room at the farm in Alaska (Grandma is in the dark dress in the center of the photo)</p> <p></p> [...]]]></description>
			<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>My Grandmother was born in 1911.</p>
<p><a title="Blakelys by coffeejitters, on Flickr" href="http://www.flickr.com/photos/coffeejitters/3861051068/"><img src="http://farm3.static.flickr.com/2476/3861051068_bb64c4d3e1_z.jpg?zz=1" alt="Blakelys" width="640" height="427" /></a></p>
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<p>Here she is 14 years old</p>
<p><a href="http://coffeejitters.net/blog/wp-content/uploads/2010/09/Doris_at_14.jpg.jpg"><img class="alignnone size-full wp-image-2321" title="Grandma at 14" src="http://coffeejitters.net/blog/wp-content/uploads/2010/09/Doris_at_14.jpg.jpg" alt="Doris at 14" width="400" height="488" /></a></p>
<p>With my Grandfather shortly after their wedding</p>
<p><a href="http://coffeejitters.net/blog/wp-content/uploads/2010/09/Lee___Doris_on_rock.jpg.jpg"><img class="alignnone size-full wp-image-2322" title="Lee and Doris" src="http://coffeejitters.net/blog/wp-content/uploads/2010/09/Lee___Doris_on_rock.jpg.jpg" alt="Grandpa and Grandma" width="400" height="713" /></a></p>
<p>With my mom (the little one) and my aunt</p>
<p><a href="http://coffeejitters.net/blog/wp-content/uploads/2010/09/McKinley_Ladies.jpg"><img class="alignnone size-full wp-image-2325" title="McKinley_Ladies" src="http://coffeejitters.net/blog/wp-content/uploads/2010/09/McKinley_Ladies.jpg" alt="McKinley ladies" width="413" height="600" /></a></p>
<p>In the living room at the farm in Alaska (Grandma is in the dark dress in the center of the photo)</p>
<p><a href="http://coffeejitters.net/blog/wp-content/uploads/2010/09/mckinleys.jpg"><img class="alignnone size-full wp-image-2323" title="mckinleys" src="http://coffeejitters.net/blog/wp-content/uploads/2010/09/mckinleys.jpg" alt="at the farm" width="640" /></a></p>
<p>My Wedding</p>
<p><a title="IMG_0763 by coffeejitters, on Flickr" href="http://www.flickr.com/photos/coffeejitters/750929327/"><img src="http://farm2.static.flickr.com/1059/750929327_c748f7e23c.jpg" alt="IMG_0763" width="375" height="500" /></a></p>
<p>95th Birthday Party</p>
<p><a title="Grandma's 95th Birthday by coffeejitters, on Flickr" href="http://www.flickr.com/photos/coffeejitters/147984340/"><img src="http://farm1.static.flickr.com/45/147984340_77d0b2eabd.jpg" alt="Grandma's 95th Birthday" width="315" height="490" /></a></p>
<p>Grandma with Gem</p>
<p><a href="http://coffeejitters.net/blog/wp-content/uploads/2009/03/025.jpg"><img class="alignnone size-full wp-image-1072" title="Grandma and Gem" src="http://coffeejitters.net/blog/wp-content/uploads/2009/03/025.jpg" alt="Grandma and Gem" width="500" /></a></p>
<p><a href="http://coffeejitters.net/blog/wp-content/uploads/2009/03/031.jpg"><img class="alignnone size-full wp-image-1073" title="Grandma and Gem" src="http://coffeejitters.net/blog/wp-content/uploads/2009/03/031.jpg" alt="Grandma and Gem" width="640" /></a></p>
<p>Four Generations</p>
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<p>My brother and his wife had temporary tattoos as party favors at their wedding.  Grandma got in on the action too. Check out the tattoo on her neck.</p>
<p><a title="653 by coffeejitters, on Flickr" href="http://www.flickr.com/photos/coffeejitters/4056381613/"><img src="http://farm4.static.flickr.com/3023/4056381613_316b69d0b1_z.jpg" alt="653" width="640" height="427" /></a></p>
<p>With my daughter</p>
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<p>My Grandmother passed away last week.  She was 99 years old.</p>
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		<title>TeTe</title>
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		<pubDate>Thu, 14 Jan 2010 02:11:27 +0000</pubDate>
		<dc:creator>Judy Schwartz Haley</dc:creator>
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		<description><![CDATA[<p>I finally got an up-to-date picture of my littlest brother (or should I say youngest), Steve, AKA: Stevie, Tete, Varmint, the Wall, or even Stewie (the Family Guy).</p> <p></p> <p>Happy Birthday Stevie!</p> ]]></description>
			<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>I finally got an up-to-date picture of my littlest brother (or should I say youngest), Steve, AKA: Stevie, Tete, Varmint, the Wall, or even Stewie (the Family Guy).</p>
<p><img src="http://coffeejitters.net/blog/wp-content/uploads/2009/11/stevie-500x375.jpg" alt="stevie" title="stevie" width="500" height="375" class="alignnone size-large wp-image-1528" /></p>
<p>Happy Birthday Stevie!</p>
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